I know that this is partly my fault for loving him wrongly and blindly. How could I have thought that he was honest when most men tell lies at a drop of a pin? Why should l believe a man who claimed he is squatting with his friend, yet none of his clothes are in the friends place? A man that won’t allow me visit his friend’s place except he is there. A man who leaves the room whenever he wants to pick a call?

I met John at a friend’s wedding and we clicked at once. He seemed very reserved like a worldly- wise man who was already bored of every thing and my heart went out to him. We chatted and exchanged numbers. He didn’t call me for two weeks and hearing from him when he did was pleasant.

So we met and our meetings became regular. He confided that he was having serious accommodation issues that he had moved out of his apartment because of his landlord’s wahala. Now he is squatting with his friend until when he is able to get a place.

We started dating on that note. I go to his friend’s place and he sometimes comes to mine. It got to when he was even spending the night at my place. It was on like this until that fateful evening I sent him an sms asking about his health and well being. I also told him that I was missing him and that I was wondering when I could visit him. He didn’t reply my sms, but he called later to ask who was sending him a text and when I replied that it was me.

He said I was harassing him and asked if l was not aware of him being a married man. And advised that I should stop worrying his line and life…

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