Acclaimed relationship expert and love doctor, Joro Olumofin has reached out to ladies, listing 20 things they shouldn’t do when they meet a new guy.

See list below:

1⃣Don’t take your friends along with you when he invites you on a date
2⃣Don’t go to his house unannounced
3⃣Don’t ask him for money
4⃣Don’t compare him to your ex or talk about your ex, only if he requests
5⃣Don’t get drunk on your first outing with him
6⃣Don’t wear see through or exposing outfits on your first outings
7⃣Don’t bore him with all your family or personal issues ( my house caught fire, my AC is not working, my rent is due )
8⃣ Don’t talk about Marriage on a first date
9⃣Don’t pry about the size of his pocket, his earnings or the car he drives ( Do you drive a G wagon ? Are you a millionaire ? )
?Don’t be too quick to post his picture on instagram, Facebook, (social media) etc
1⃣1⃣ Don’t go out without “vex money” or a simple transport fare “bailout” money
1⃣2⃣ Don’t lie you’re a virgin and don’t lie about your age ( Some ladies say they’re 22 when they’re 29)
1⃣3⃣ Don’t order what you don’t know how to eat or you’re allergic to all because you’re forming sophisticated
1⃣4⃣ Don’t ask to meet his Mother or Father. Only if he suggests
1⃣5⃣ Don’t be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress just because you want To impress or be a Diva
1⃣6⃣ Don’t talk to him about your body count or guys you’ve slept with. YOUR STANDARD / DEFAULT body count is (2) guys
1⃣7⃣ Don’t form British or American accent or any form of accent you can’t keep up with
1⃣8⃣ Don’t think you’re an automatic girlfriend after the first Sexual Encounter
1⃣9⃣ when your friends call you on a date don’t describe him in a derogatory manner eg I’m with that guy who has Bastard Money
2⃣0⃣ Don’t start leaving clothes and tooth brush stylishly at his place.