The wife of IK Ogbonna Nigerian Nollywood actor Sonnia Ogbonna has revealed how she feels when she hears the word marriage.
Sonnnia is not a Nigerian so she may hate the idea of marriage. She is originally named Sonnia Ogbonna Morales, she hails from Columbia.
“Honestly, I have never liked the idea of marriage, I hated it cuz it seemed like a zone where we appreciate nothing and demand for everything just because, Even today I feel like the whole “marriage” thing is not there to serve us, but to serve society by impacting tones of norms that are meant to control us, lock us inside the box and decide what is wrong and right on our behalf. It took me time, tears, depression, endless arguments and literally madness to understand the purpose of two people coexisting together,” the DFNG ambassador wrote.
She also said that her husband is the best as he has given her the freedom to be who she wants to be, she also took out time to thank him so much for baby-sitting her when she was just 23.
She wrote
“Many times I forgot to give credit to this man of mine for everything that he is. Do you know how difficult I am to handle? Strong minded woman with revolution on her mind 24/7. Lol, Average man’s pride can’t deal with me. Ever. I made many mistakes but the biggest one is not appreciating u every moment of my day. Thank you for babysitting me from the time I was barely 23. I know it’s not easy dealing with a savage like me that doesn’t like being tamed ”submissive” (I hate that bloody word) And freedom u gave me is the highest proof of love u have for me. Nothing is perfect about us, but at the end of the day we always remember to go back on the right track whenever we get lost. I love you Boss.”
As a Nigerian woman you hate the idea of marriage then you should be ready to go to war with your parent most especially if you are the eldest child.
I wonder why someone that hates the idea of marriage will be married.