IK Ogbonna’s Colombian wife, Sonia Morales, has come out to warn most parents with the way they talk about other people in the presence of their kids.
According to Sonia, for a child to be able to grow mentally and emotionally stable, there should be limit to what parents discuss in their presence.
In her words, “If you want your children to grow into mentally and emotionally stable people,don’t ever use your mouth to talk bad about other parent in front of them. Don’t use your kids as a weapon for revenge against other parent just because you are not getting type of love or relationship you want from them.”
Emphasizing on the ladies who are single parents, she warned that things not going down well with their baby daddy does not mean he is a bad person but try to ensure that things go well with the kids they have together.
“If someone is a bad partner for you that doesn’t make him a bad parent. Stop being selfish, stop using innocent kids to fix your own issues and deal with your own desperations, bitterness and failed expectations. Yes, you will successfully hurt other person because every normal parent loves his child, but keep in your mind that nobody will suffer and get affected more than your own kid.
“Nowadays is so easy to switch things and make a man seem like a bad father even when he’s truly not just because you are not happy with him for different reasons. My ladies, you are better than that. Every kid deserves a healthy relationship with both parents. Don’t deny them that right,” she added.
