Veteran stand up comedian, Alibaba has taken up the responsibility of a love doctor, counselling young couples on what healthy relationship entails. Alibaba, on his Instagram page urged married and single woman to understand the peculiar demands of today’s world and stop complaining about their spouse being too busy.
He continued, by saying that one of the reasons relationship crash is because people do not understand nor appreciate the fact that one can be too busy, before going into a relationship.
His word, “I have taught this to many married women, who say their husband is too busy and several of them listened and snapped out of that if he loves you, he will find time to call and make time for you.
“Others are just set in their ways. That thought process is one reason many relationships break up, some before it even starts. While I agree that it’s important to be in touch, constantly, with your significant other, I also believe that there are times when work really can hold you down and shut down the world.
“Some could be jobless, some have arrived, some work for themselves, some have light working hours, or even in careers that gives them time to waste.
“Believe it or not, there are people who can actually be busy for 4 hours straight. I am an MC, I had worked sometimes from 4pm and don’t get break until 12 midnight. And there are cabin crew members who are airborne for 12 hours or less.
“My point is, don’t throw away a good man, because he is always busy. Or would you rather one that is always home?
“Like I said, it’s a core part of relationships to stay in touch, but there are times all you need is understanding. I have a friend whose babe starts calling him from 4:30pm. Where are you? Are you still on the road? Why didn’t you pick your call?
“Are you sure you are at work? Are you not supposed to have closed? Can you video call me? Blah blah blah. Then he met one who doesn’t stress him, who says, how was your day? Hope the workload is not too much? You have been so busy, try and get a massage this weekend.
“Should I send you lunch? Should my driver bring you orange juice? Once you give a guy the impression that you are not concerned about his career, you are on a long thing. This also goes for men who put a tracker on their babes, monitor them like they are on Parole. You may be more beautiful, richer and sexier… but understanding your spouse’s career is KEY”.
