Yesterday, newly married Nollywood actress, Susan Peters dished out tip of a good husband which came with bible quotations.
Well, Yoruba movie star and happily mum of two boys, Opeyemi Aiyeola also have some words of advise on relationship tips and more.
According to her; “Not many of us are lucky at having good relationships,and of course not all of us are unlucky at having a bad relationship…
Its a beautiful thing to find true love,I mean to be in love,and it is such a wonderful feeling to be loved in return.
I usually tell people,especially those who had made up their mind that “there is nothing like true love,existing”… Once again I say it to you today,that Love is real,it exist and it will surely find you,if only you open up your heart to be truly loved.
Painfully,what I see most of us doing,much apologies to the women-folk is that,” majority of us go for the material things,not necessarily after the true heart who is ready to show to us,the true love.
Another thing is the fact,that the typical modern day woman isn’t that patient enough to sacrifice,and as well pass through the rough roads in the journey of relationship…
There and then,we hear of the popular saying “,emi osini surulere,Olorunsogo nimobalo”… Forgetting the fact that,nothing good comes easy…
To our men,I stand to correct the notion as well that all we women are the same,no we are not…majority of us wants to taste the true love,we open our heart to you guys,but you guys usually go for the looks,toy with our feelings,joke with our emotions,” take what you are after”,and then break our heart over and over again…tell me why i won’t do same to the innocent guy that comes my way, when obviously my good intention,my true feelings have been broken over and over again…
Anyway…bad as it has been…love stays the same,and true love never changes…
Love,the greatest gift of all…
To every good woman out there,I pray and wish you love…and to our,not that we women are that bad as it looks,of course we want to love,much as we desire to be truly loved…
Show us care and right inside our heart,we would show you the true meaning of Love…
Mind you, this isn’t about sex,neither is it about money or material things…its about two different heart with same intention..and as we will be coming together,I am ready to bend for you,learn your rules,abide by your desires,show you that i truly care,be there for every time,much as I desire and expect same,and more.?”
She also extended her piece of advise to parents, both single parents and couple.
“A beautiful feeling to have a child…a wonderful feeling for children to surround you…”an heritage of God they are,says the bible”… It sometimes could be easy for some to conceive,while for others,the battle of infertility could take a little longer,however it turned out to be,the bulk of the task rest upon the shoulder of raising a child successfully.. Let us not forget? The foundation to which a child’s orientation is built upon is grounded within the immediate family the child belongs to…so ideally we are expected as parents and families, to “train up the child in the way he should go,so that when he grows up,he won’t depart from it”… I never said it would be or that it has always been a very easy task,but it gladden the heart,comforts the soul,guarantees a joyful smile, and as well assures of a secured future when and each time a well trained grows successfully and responsibly.
As parents,let’s give it all it takes,our children are not only our replica or heritage,but are also the future we will be leaving behind when we are no more.
I therefore speak these words of truth and comfort to every mother and parent out there today: God Almighty will bless you,bless your home and bless your kids
You will never bury your kids,and they will grow up successful enough to take good care of you…and so will you reap the fruits of your labor on them.
To every barren woman reading this,and to every barren home seeing this,by the grace of God,you shall celebrate soon,not only would the joyful cry of a child be heard in your homes,but you shall be fruitful beyond your imagination… And every tongue of reproach on you,from today shall celebrate you.?”
