Yoruba actress, Bridget Amos seems to having problem with the matters of the heart. The Kwara State-born beauty loves setting certain standards for herself, and she also seems  to have what to say to men who talk down on women after bedding them.

 “What do you really want? So complicated and confusing to please,” she wrote, questioning men on her list. If you try to please them, you are cheap; if you make love to them you are a love peddler; if you don’t, you are playing hard to get; if you show them love you  are too emotional.  If you give them attention, you are bugging them, and if you don’t,  you are with other men. If you dress sexy you are attracting other men, if you don’t, you are awkward and local. If you cook; wash their clothes, you are desperate of getting married, if you don’t , you are not a wife material”

Continuing: “If you’re independent you are chasing other men; if you are dependent you are a liability. If you try to satisfy them in bed you are a sex addict; if you don’t, you are making sex boring. If you get pregnant you want to trap them down; if you don’t, you have damaged your womb. If you are beautiful, you can’t stay with one man; if you are not, you are not up to the standard; if you ask for money you are too demanding and if you don’t, you are forming”. Then, she hits the nail on the head,  “they think we can’t do without them.  At times,  I don’t think they know what they want”