My boyfriend and I have a complicated past, but we love each other. I love talking with him, we could do it for days if we could. We’re always there for one another no matter what. Emotionally, it’s perfect, I guess. But physically, I’m just not attracted to him at all. I do the minimum with him, but just to keep him from complaining too much. On top of that, I find myself constantly thinking about other guys, but only physically.
Sometimes I start to think that I want my boyfriend’s personality in the guy(s) I am physically attracted to. You know, just wanting to know what it would be like and feel like. So can you be in love with your boyfriend and not be attracted to him? And want someone else physically? Is that normal?
