Hi,

I’m a married woman with kids(3),and sometimes I feel like marriage and kids are like holding down my dreams n goals in life from coming to fruition.

I have an OND in computer science, tried looking for a job, it wasn’t easy even considering the fact that it was OND qualification I was making use of,finally I got one as a receptionist.

The pay… 30,000k but I had to get a nanny for my kids. Now the nanny was demanding a salary of 20,000k, from where I stay to where I have to work I will spend at least 12,000k on transport! How much was I being payed?! Due to this and my kids…I cudnt leave them without anyone to take care of them I had to forfeit the job. Maybe if I didn’t have the kids(not that I do not love them and thank God for giving them to me) I would have been working now.

The main issue now is my hubby,if I get some job,he is like no I don’t want you to work there if I bring up a business idea he is like no not that kind of business. Recently, I decided to acquire a skill, the 3 I have my eyes on are being a makeup artist, fashion designer or hairstylist cos I work very well with my hands but getting the money to register and learn out of him is a problem.

Sometimes I feel like he just wants me to sit at home though he doesn’t admit to it. I am tired of being at home year in year out. Pleaseeee I need some candid advice on what to do.

Thanks in anticipation.

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