SECRET REASONS SOCIETY LADIES DATE FOREIGN BASED GUYS
Story by Akinnagbe Akintomide
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Have you noticed that so many of our female celebrities, especially the actresses in both the English and Yoruba speaking version of Nollywood don’t only go to shop for their clothes, travel for vacation or go to shoot movies abroad, they also prefer lovers who are based abroad.

Every now and then, slang like “her American based boyfriend or her London based lover” has become a common norm for pen pushers.

The question now is, why are they neglecting our handsome men who live here in Nigeria to fall in the arms of those abroad, is it that men who live in Nigeria are ugly or there is no responsible one’s around?

After a research was conducted on this, we were able to gather the real reasons many celebs prefer Nigerian men who are based abroad to our eligible bachelors based in the country.

FREEDOM- Because of the nature of the job, some Nigerian actresses prefer to settle for Nigerian men based abroad. Of course he won’t always be around to monitor her whereabouts; she won’t have to neglect her job and location to run home to tend to her family.

As the jobs demands, she can travel for days or weeks and for a lady who is so used to flirting around, she would have all the whole time and freedom in the world to do that.

• COMFORT- In today’s world, every lady wants to be comfortable, being a celebrity, you are expected to drive the best cars, wear expensive clothes and jewelries and be very comfortable but most celebrities can’t live solely on what they earn, they need someone to spice up their bank accounts and most Nigerian guys based abroad are ready to flaunt all the cash without blinking an eyelid. It’s showbiz so they have got to ‘SHOW’.

• LOVE- Some of the celebrities fall in love, not for his money or other benefits; they are only interested in settling down with a foreign based guy.

• SECURITY- As we all know, if anyone gets married to a legal citizen in UK or US, automatically, she become a citizen too, that’s of course a plus for her, she can go in and out of the country as she wishes.

• WIND OF SEASON- That’s the current trend now, so many single celebs follow the trend since there are so many benefits in it!

• THEY ARE MORE ROMANTIC- It is believed that most Nigerian men are not romantic enough, thus, they prefer Nigerian based abroad or even foreigners so as to have an original experience of the romantic movies they act!

• STATUS QUO- Some ladies naturally love men who are based abroad, they get excited and feel cool that they are dating a foreign based guy; just the status alone makes them feel like they are on top of the world.

• NO FAMILY PRESSURE- Most Nigerian guys based abroad fancy female celebrities, and our celebs fancy them too because they won’t have so much pressure from family and friends who may go against their getting engaged with a celebrity who is believed to have lived a wayward life in the course of their job.

• COVER UP- Some celebs who don’t really have a serious relationship with anyone tell those who care to listen that they are engaged with a foreign lover when they are being pressurized by people, especially the press. That serves as a good cover up to save them the embarrassment.

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Nfc na lie
Lana jerry | 10/5/2012 2:51:03 AM
It iz becoz our male celeb prefer white woman dan our woman so dey hav 2 travel abroad 2 get a husband 4 theirseleves. Our male cele lyke osaze, mikel iz dating a white woman, . Especially diz twins psquare dey lyke onyibo toto very much, dey even use oyibo woman in there video. So i dnt blame our female celeb 4 wat dey a doing.
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nfc
violet | 10/5/2012 3:42:30 AM |
Abroad based guys or foreigners respect and value women more than nigeria men,nigeria men do to nigeria culture. feels that men suppose to be the head and in that mentality ,they start abusing the culture treating their women anyhow not knowing that nigeria women have reached the zenith of civilization,so in that case me and my girlfriend have also vowed not to have anything to do with niger based guy.thank GOD WE r based in UK.
NFC NFC NFC
FIRSTLADY | 10/5/2012 4:06:45 AM |
NFC, HOW MANY TIMES DID I CALL UNA!! THUNDA GO FIRE ALL OF UNA!! MTSHEWWWWWWWWWWWW!! THE REAL REASONS IS THAT THESE LOW SELF ESTEEM HAVING GOAT, WANT TO CLAIM YANKEE OR JAND BY FORCE WHILE THEY ARE STILL ash*w*-ING IN ABUJA AND LAGOS!! AND WHY THE HELL DID YOU GUYS PUT WOLF TEETH UCHE JUMBO!! THAT FAKE MARRIAGE SHE IS CLAIMING SHE IS IN!!! PPL IN THIS OUR INDUSTRY ALWAYS CLAIMING!!! NONSENSE!!!WHERE ARE MY PEEPS: SOMEONE, CRYSTALL, CHYKE, AND THE REST OF THEM!!! I DEY MISS UNA!! DONT WORRY, I WILL RETURN VERY VERY SOOOOOOOOOON WITH PIXXXXXXXXXXXXX!!!
MUMULADY PREACH!!
ANNA | 10/5/2012 4:27:10 AM |
PATHETIC LADY PREACH!!!!!!!! dnt mind dem fake celebs esp dis uche jumbo very fake marriage mehn jus lookn for sumone to do as handbang durin red carpets.This one wey d tin dey pain u na becos ur hubby looks like oliver d coque so u sef look for jand guy now heheheheeheh.Which pixx u wan bring heheheheheheheheheeheheh u suppose dey honeymoon na if una no get jand money u nd ur hubby fit explore cotonou,togo and benin atleast dose coutries no neccessarily need plane money make una 2 just pass border heheheheheh
These are some of their resons
Nneoma | 10/5/2012 4:38:46 AM |
Greediness, wannabelong & freedom to eternal ashaw0ying.
wanna bees
Charisma | 10/5/2012 6:06:31 AM |
They re all wann'bees! 99 % of dos celebs dat got married 2 d so-calld abroad-basd didnt marry dem out of love, they all did dat out of dia selfish intrest may be to boost dia ego, to rub shoulders wit d high n mighty etc mtchewww! See old mama Uche n her pwussy cleaner calld husby hehehe!
ANUS
FIRSTLADY | 10/5/2012 5:47:10 AM |
ANIMALISTIC, UNTRAINED EDIOT!! I DONT BLAME U, YOUR MATES ARE BUSY BUYING NEW CARS EVERY MONTH, YOU ARE STILL CATCHING THE BUS TO SCHOOL! EDIOT!! I AM NOT MARRIED YET, BUT THANKS FOR ASKING, ITS IN TWO WEEKS!! SEE WHO IS TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE HUBBY, D ONE YOU ARE FASTING AND PRAYING TO GET WILL LOOK LIKE SEGUN ARINZE MIX WITH DONJAZZY!! YOU WONT GO AND CHOP EBA THATS WORRYING U! BLOODY, UNBAPTIZED GOAT
LMFAO U GO QUENCH O
ANNA | 10/5/2012 6:35:57 AM |
Shatap!!!!!! which bus dnt lemme blow my trumpet biko.That by d way u have confirmly told us how the church ground in cele was ur sleeping place just to get this ur average hubby ur abt to wed so,how d cele white garment pple used broom to wipe demon preventing hubby in ur life guess the broom wipin nd koboko beating paid sha hehehhahahahahah.I knw say u miss us, me esp see as ur happy na wa o.Anna has a mark in ur life mehn lol hahaahahahha
Firstlady
real pina | 10/5/2012 9:41:03 AM |
Firstlady how was ur wedding na and how oga de, hope everything went fine sha. Ok o i say make i hail u, welcome back
real pina
Lalaland | 11/13/2012 1:07:18 AM |
Abeg no bother asking sheitlady about her so called fhucking hubby! The old cow is here rubbing shoulders with us singletons while being miserable in her so called fhucking marriage!
Legless lady
Charisma | 10/5/2012 5:51:33 AM |
Hmm... dis ur cougar marriage is taking like eternity ooo, suld we start suspecting fowl play? e be like say dem don turn u to chief bridesmaid instead of BRIDE ? well am keeping my CHARISMATIC fingers crossd oo. Hommies mek we begin de fast oo bcos i no fit cut rope if person commits suicide oo .
NONSENSE
FIRSTLADY | 10/5/2012 6:28:01 AM |
SATAN SHAME ON TO YOU, ALL POWER BELONG TO THE LORD!! CHARISTMATIC GOAT, FOLOOW ME AND SING IT OOO!!! SEE MY HATERS!! BLEETING LIKE A GOAT THATS BEING KILLED BY BOKO HARAM!!
Firstlady
Chinwe | 10/5/2012 7:30:44 AM |
You just marry and come and spent time so soon on NFC,Chai your marriage must be boring,lonely or hell. Poor tin,ndo nne.I sorry for you nnwan nne.Why you marry in the first place?
chinwe
Charisma | 10/5/2012 7:42:14 AM |
Heheheheeh na sooo , she just wan obtain/attain d title "MRS" dats all!
Mrs fhuckaldy
Lalaland | 11/13/2012 1:06:02 AM |
As a so called married woman you sound so shameless o...coming here on nfc shouting like the ediot you are! Mtchew!
YES CHARISMA LOL
AN | 10/5/2012 6:36:39 AM |
Yes hahahahhaha charisma she is either the brides maid or even flower girl hahahahahahahaha
Anna love!
Charisma | 10/5/2012 7:04:18 AM |
Hahahahah Anna sweetie no laf oo begin fast n pray biko kwa lol!
The thing is that....
Lalaland | 11/13/2012 1:10:49 AM |
Apart for some nigerian women wanting to be seen as important, and greedy as well, they also prefer men who let them be themselves and not want to be like their mother who is unhappy in their 40 years of miserable married life to their bully of a hubby! Here in australia where i am based with my lolo, women are treated with respect and are powerful and career minded! No man can tell a woman to not reach her potential in the life that God gave to her. As a male myself, i hate stewpid mumu women wey no get sense for themselves! We men find them boring.
nfc
jasmine | 10/5/2012 4:22:09 AM
NFC you have forgotten to add one important reason privacy.They don't want gossips like nfc to monitor them.
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have fun girl
miss lady | 10/5/2012 4:25:08 AM
goodluck babygirl, wishin you all the best.
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nonesense
Sam Iyke | 10/5/2012 4:45:23 AM
if they lyk they can date guys in outer space we dont care. We are nigerians and nigerians we are. Rawbish
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niger
esy | 10/5/2012 4:52:20 AM
nigeria men this should be a big lesson to you all,learn to love and care for ur women,am based abroad with my husband and i can bet abroad guys na the best,niger men womanize alot,beat and insult their wives,starve them with material things etc,but me am married to my hussy for a decade now,but we still see each other as newly married,my husband married me and brought me abroad,i still give him dat respect cos he made me see the western world,so i dnt blame this girls on bit.
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nigerian men
jenny | 10/5/2012 5:39:04 AM
nigerian men are terrible womanizers. D hv no respect for their woman. 99per of married men womanizer more dan bachelors. D see womanizing as an achievement. Every married woman in dis country is either going tru emotional(cheating) or physical abuse(beating). My sister trusted her hubby so much but recently she discovered dat her hubby has two misstresses. Every married woman in naija open ur eyes.
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N.F.C you are right
Joe | 10/5/2012 7:41:07 AM
That's the reason why Nigeria men Abroad count census on Nigeria Ladies when they come back home cos everyone of them want to marry abroad husband,.
all our Actresses are looking for Abroad based guys.
Me when i come back home for marriage i will quietly go to the Village and marry one cool headed Girl.and if she come here in Europe and want to open eyes like all these African women am seeing here i will quickly sent her back to Nigeria.me I don't like all these Nigeria civilized Wannabe women.
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Joe(Cave man)
Taiwo Idowu NY | 10/5/2012 8:59:54 AM |
What do you mean civilized nigeria women.You want women to go back to the old days staying home,no education,getting pregnant every year and depend on a man for handout right?.I got some news for yuo.You are thinking like a caveman and for your own benefits,you should stay single because no matter the woman you bring from home, she will change her status become educated and independent.I could see you as a control freak and a dictator.I feel sorry for the woman that will marry your caveman thinking asss.You don't have any rtespect for woman even though you came from a woman.This is the 21st centuru man.You need to get with the program.Either you get with it or get lost.
black the real human being
vetvet | 10/5/2012 9:03:35 AM
nigerian women that live in abroad dont not marry to oyinbo men, is only those that are looking for paper do that, when you have live in eup for many years,you will not want to marry to a oyibo person. wether man or woman.afterall is more better to live with them than to live under them.and you learn alot of experience about the oyibo, na man go decide, no be person go tell you, expenrience is the best answer.
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cade
vetvet | 10/5/2012 9:12:04 AM
some of the oyibo pple have snake, rat, pigg,lizard and som other animals at home as pet.
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Nigerian men
Apple | 10/5/2012 4:05:04 PM
Date a nigerian man? TUFUAKWA!!!
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THE THRUTH
BLACK RASIS | 10/5/2012 11:52:17 PM
In EUP here, IF YOU ARE A AFRICA WOMAN, AND PPLE SEE YOU GOING AROUND OR MARRY TO A OYIBO MAN, THEY ONLY SEES YOU LIKE A PROSTITUDE, COZ THEY KNOW YOU ARE NOT BORN THERE. AND IF YOU ARE A AFRICA MAN MARRY TO OYIBO AND GOING AROUND WITH OYIBO, PPLE WILL THINK YOU ARE A NEW COMMER, OR YOU ARE LOST OR YOU HAVE FORGET YOURSELF.BECAUSE EVERY FOREIGNER GO WITH IS OWN TRIBE.
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the one that is created for me
real marriage | 10/6/2012 12:38:48 AM
I am a Nigeria woman. I prefer to be alone, than to marry to a white man.
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jYPDNYJToVuGOWvMI
Costa | 11/27/2012 5:15:14 PM
The comment therad for the BBC Have Your Say program is an interesting read, but it is a pity that the BBC does not provide an audio file download or streaming audio for this program (and several others). Any chance that an audio file or podcast of the show exists somewhere on the Net so that others may listen?
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Hmmm
Pretty p | 1/3/2013 2:59:20 AM
Wao i like dis page.
Yes som oyibo d smel.d eat alsort of nonesense.I LOVE NIGERIAn guys.
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I LOVE MY NIGERIAN GIRLS
FRANKKELLY | 3/18/2013 3:32:01 PM
WHATEVER IT TAKE I PREFER MY OWN COUNTRY GIRLS.AND I PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE ME A BETTER WIFE IN TIME TO.AND I PROMISE TO CHERISH HER.GIVE HER MY LOVE MAKE HER UNDERSTAND WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT
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