How to Have a Successful Marriage – Foluke Daramola
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1. Olympic Spirit: Olympic spirit is the spirit of competition. It has crept into many marriages where couples who are supposed to work as partners are working as rivals. Lovers now work as foes. They compete about building their own houses, buying cars and about winning the love of their children.

Solution: You are partners, don’t compete. You are lovers, don’t fight. You are companions, work in unity. Don’t ever see each other as competitors but as companions.

2. Lovelessness Husbands are commanded by God to love their wives and not be bitter against them. “Husbands love your wives and be not bitter against them”. Colossians 3:19. Love for your wife should be deep in your heart. When you allow her love to depart, you are making room for a difficult marriage.

Solution: Love your wife and don’t compare her with to any other woman. Verbalize the love. Tell her “I love you” often. Show the love to her by getting her gifts and give her your undivided attention.

3. Disunity Not walking as one, no fondness, divided house is the end result of so many negative things in marriage. United we stand, divided we fall. There is no place this saying is more true than in marriage.

Solution: Walk in love, walk as one. Stand together, stand as one. Stand in unity. Join your hands together, join your mind also. Have the same voice, the same vision, the same focus and the same destination.

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Hahahahaha!!
Sly | 9/23/2012 3:44:24 AM
Second base jare.Hehehehehe.Folake you will even try to sell ice cubes to Alaska people.Piss off joor.
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Foluke
Sly | 9/23/2012 7:16:10 AM |
This coming from someone whose 1st marriage failed? Did i miss something here?
advicer
na your yawa | 9/23/2012 3:56:20 AM
no wahala Folake we done hear u, heaven help does who help themselvies, 10x for d advice lol
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over sabi
jo o | 9/23/2012 4:05:07 AM
when u know all this,why did ur marriage fail?
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EKSU STUDENT
osalope kayode O | 9/23/2012 4:16:41 AM
I'm here to suport your comment on foluke daramola. May God be with U and your family. Amen. 9ice and wise word, you are wellcome.
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EKSU STUDENT
osalope kayode O | 9/23/2012 4:19:32 AM
I'm here to suport your comment on foluke daramola. May God be with U and your family. Amen. 9ice and wise word, you are wellcome.
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Mtcheew
Xt¥$h¤nt€LL | 9/23/2012 4:28:57 AM
Which be dis amoeba talking?abeg make e f**k off jare.when did u turn to marriage counsellor
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thief
biodun | 9/23/2012 6:38:39 AM
When you don marry another person husband this is common to most of this actress and u don't fear God now you dey preach about love when you separate fashola man and his wife and you want to pack inside may God punish your mouth wen u use to talk r*****h here
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successful marriage by daramol
tt baby | 9/23/2012 6:52:24 AM
Wat does she kno abt marriage, e nor qualify to talk about marriage
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Appreciation
Olatunde idowu. | 9/23/2012 6:55:42 AM
Ur messages is highly appreciated.may god bless ur new marriage.
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Jst sayin
'Toby'Tosyn | 9/23/2012 7:09:52 AM
Don't follow after her if you felt bitter about these but do practice what she preached...but hey LWKMD°
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Foluke
Apostle | 9/23/2012 7:10:50 AM
Ode ma blow ni! Iwo nwaasu, after shagging another womans's husband.
Well God dey wait for judgement thrown. This your b**bs don put you for wahala...
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Foluke
Apostle | 9/23/2012 7:11:05 AM
Ode ma blow ni! Iwo nwaasu, after shagging another womans's husband.
Well God dey wait for judgement thrown. This your b**bs don put you for wahala...
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Useless adviser
TT | 9/23/2012 7:55:03 AM
Look at useless husband snatcher advising pple on marriage, wonders shall never end, i***t, advise urself first after ur failed marriage and u took another woman's husband and now u are here to give advice on marriages, f**l like u.
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TIPS
jasmine | 9/23/2012 8:42:57 AM
These are the strategies she used for snatching another woman's husband.
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ash*w*
Apple | 9/23/2012 8:52:05 AM
See who is talking...mtchew...ash*w*
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wonders shall never end
helen | 9/23/2012 9:10:16 AM
On what basis is she advising us. After one failed marraige and hacking into another woman's house. Dis girl is sick
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Nice
Good man | 9/23/2012 9:26:45 AM
Well what i can say about u pple that had comments was that u pple were unfair ok
so becos she had made a mistake or should i say she had problem about her marital life made her not to advices other again??

What i thought about this was that she was trying to put pple through in other not to make a mistakes as she made!!

So sister foluke,thanks so much and we the wise one really appreciate this ok!!
God bless u cos we are not all perfect.
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Tru tak
Korede adeniji | 9/23/2012 9:31:18 AM
If d advise can be taken most marrige won't break up
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SHUT UP
Jman | 9/23/2012 4:15:35 PM
Hahaha see person wey dey advice oo maybe we should ask her why she still remain single after d guy kick am out
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Good marriage plan
Chemberlyn | 9/24/2012 3:16:10 AM
Jst hearing 4 d first time ur marriage fail, what happens to dis advise when ur own fail? perhaps u learnt frm experience. U try shaa wish most ladies wil knw the differences btwn companion n competin. Wel u tried
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WHAT AN IRONY??
OCHENDO | 9/25/2012 6:21:00 AM
A divorcee & now husband snatcher giving tips for a successful marriage? What an irony!
Foluke you would hv practised this tips with your ex husband to keep him rather going after & snatching another woman's husband.
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what an irony
monica | 9/25/2012 1:02:56 PM
I dont believe this is coming from a woman who has just snatched another persons Husband. May thunder strike the false prophet in town.
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nice one
hiphy | 10/3/2012 1:43:27 PM
why not learn from the experienced or even the mad somtimes,so you will be wise..stop castigating people cos thet failed,you are not perfect..she has the right to give advises and you have the right not to listen
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ashewo kobo kobo
joy | 10/5/2012 3:50:12 AM
see this f**l,God will punish u a million times. u wlll be alive to watdh ur breast rot away and maggots feasting on it. u snatched someone else Husband and u are unable to make urs work. Again God will disgrace you.i***t
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it dosent matter
mopo | 11/9/2012 2:30:28 AM
she gave an advice she is not d first person her marriage fail so stop judgeing her meawhile is d woman sleeping wen she snatch d man away4rm her dat means she is not taken care of d man very well may b a naggin wife sort ur self out first b ok
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