She was a delight of all and sundry when she came into the industry several years back. Today, Bimbo Akintola who seems to have become a shadow of herself in the industry told this office that, she is not in a hurry to be married. “Marriage is such a huge deal and I’m not in a hurry to go there. That’s the truth, she declared. The Nollywood diva who has alleged to have dated quite a few people in and outside the industry further said; "I will be 70 and still be single if I do not believe honestly that I have found the right person. We are all on earth as individuals. Some of us will marry; some of us will not. Some of us will have children, some of us will not. So I never judge myself according to other people’s standard.
If you find maybe two of my ex’s, you will find out that I’ve had proposals. But I turned them down because at the end of the day, you are saying ‘I pick this person above everybody else in the world, till death do us part.’ I had better believe that! If I don’t believe it, it’s not going to happen.
If I’d wanted to be married 15 times over, I would have. But I won’t marry for people, I will marry for me. When I find the person that makes me feel I can do this forever, then I am ready.” Bimbo Akintola, single, searching at 37 said. Click the link below to go to...Eedris Abdulkareem Fires Obasanjo Back, Calls Him Boko Haram Member, Mugu Alleged Husband Snatching Saga: Foluke Daramola Denies Breaking Lagos Socialite, Kayode Salako's Marriage**May Marry Kayode SoonD'Banj Dumps Genevieve For IBB's In-Law's Daughter? In Rumoured Romance With IBB's Son's First Wife's Sister Omotola's Hubby is the bedrock of whatever she is today ---Princess Chineke Win Lots Of Gifts From Nigeriafilms.com On Joli-Joli Avenue On Eko 89.7FM Sexy Upcoming Actress Dies Mysteriously Days After Cynthia Osokogu's Alleged Death By Facebook Friends, Another Victim Shares Near-Death Experience Uche Jombo Makes First Public Appearance With Hubby, Kenny Rodriguez After Marriage Jim Iyke's Girlfriend Denies Having A Baby
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Loyal fan | 9/5/2012 3:37:30 AMyou better make hay while the sunshines girl . The older you get the harder it becomes . You cannot wait forever your biological clock does not wait till you are 70, except if you don't want to have children ( you can adopt) . Please don't be too choosy there is no perfect man out there , you work on each other. We always find faults in each other as human beings. you are a beautiful lady , so don't look on outside, look on the inside of any man , most especially God fearing. 1 love .. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 4:28:46 AM |
Dont worry NO man in their right mind is in a hurry to marry you either! Continue searching at 42... NFC Bimbo is 42 NOT 37! Nky | 9/5/2012 5:04:46 AM |
Hahahaha lala u sure say she's 42,cos a woman @ tht age no b wa titi o,nd stil single Lalaland | 9/5/2012 5:31:02 AM |
No bother with ya advise o! Bimbo knows her time is already up and there aint no hay in her barn cos her sun has gone down! The thing is that she should just settle for being an aunty to her nephews and nieces! Lalaland | 9/5/2012 5:42:33 AM |
Honestly she is 42 years old. chica | 9/5/2012 6:01:33 AM |
Hahahahahhahahahhaha. This is Lalagoat no fit kill person with his/her comments. Hahahahahahha lolo | 9/5/2012 6:19:36 AM |
bimbo has passed her sale by date period, remain where u are we will send u a spinsterhood cat to cuddle Lalaa | 9/5/2012 6:51:02 AM |
The kind anger wey this spinster bimbo get, she go fit strangle the ginger cat to death due to anger o! Someone Somewhere | 9/5/2012 7:40:56 AM |
Bimbo ,i heard u are 40 or fourty something from one of ur Ex like that,why u dey hide ur age,well i wish u all the best, a man will come,definitely not a young boy,good luck to u,God dey,believe MEE | 9/5/2012 9:51:14 AM |
What a pitty! O ma se o!!! Trust MEE, it's a great pitty for this woman called Bimbo Akintola. What cultured and resonable man would want to live the rest of his life with a woman like you??? A woman who has devoted all her life to devil and demonlished concepts. What man will marry a "chronic smoker", "an habitual drunker", a very "pompus and arrogant", "city and town woman who does not belief in the institution of marriage", a "lover of fellow women", a "woman who beliefs she is all in all who needs no man's help/assistance for any accomplishment". Who will marry such a woman? Your statement above is just to show how frustrated you are, at the same time, a consolation for your failure in getting a decent, amiable and mature man to marry, period. You have used your morning time to play games, wine, dine and gamble with all the Mr. Rights. Now it's getting late, if not too late, and you just realised that "not everybody in life will marry or give birth to kids". Huuuuuun!!! What a frustrated and hopeless comment. May God help you out, GrandMa. O ma se oooooo!!! kirsty.E | 9/15/2012 9:10:57 PM |
she never did have a tag on her in he first place, there no sell by dates.... she's human and not a product... you never know what,s around the corner.. be careful of your utterances..... No de lie | 12/11/2012 2:50:20 AM |
Bimbo i think u urself dont trust urself if u can be faithful to any man or not, cos at dat age & as a yoruba by tribe. U r mature enogh to setle isues among ur maried siblin. I'm sure ur mama will not be happy about dis. U ARE A p********e. kirsty.E | 9/15/2012 9:08:12 PM |
if really you are one of her loyal fans, making statements like this is so uncultured and cheap Miss Ghana | 9/7/2012 10:44:24 AM |
Please tell Bimbo that we love her but even the men wey don pass her age reach 60's sef dey find 25 year old women to marry or date. she should start crying and looking for a man who loves her before kingdom comes to carry her old bones go! kirsty.E | 9/15/2012 9:05:58 PM |
how do you know, how does anyone know.....be careful the utterances you make about marital statues of others Nneoma | 9/5/2012 4:40:09 AM |
Watever! Suit urself, its ur life afterall, so do watever u want with it. Marriage is not by force as u ve already said, but make a wise choice while there is still time for it, bcos u can never find a perfect man on dis earth. All d best in ur searching endeavours. Love ur diction. S.E.X | 9/5/2012 4:51:16 AM |
She will not find a suitable husband but she will find a suitable f.u.c.k.e.r.She is just Cameroun Diaz of Nigeria.Continue shining ur congo. Lalaland | 9/5/2012 5:32:22 AM |
Na true o! Just fhuck and be in a relationship for 5 years then get dumped for a younger fertile model! Oh well she should do a sandra bullock and just go adopt cos this woman HAYS has died up!! Nkechi | 9/5/2012 6:09:51 AM |
If you plan to have kids Bimbo, the earlier the better. They need you strong and youthful as they grow. A mother at 28 to 33 is way better than at 40 unless you just couldn't sincerely help it (not your fault). Early marriage is no doubt the best as they will afford you enough time to support your children and watch them grow into the adult you want them to be. I got married at 32 and was just too late for me but I only realised how late it was when I saw my younger sister's daughter who is 13 this year while my first child is just 3 years age,few years from now my younger sister will probably be nursing her first grandchild while my daughter is still in primary school. All things being equal, it gives the couple ample time to be with/enjoy their children. You don't wanna be old and senile when you give birth to your first child. etc. I sincerely advice people to marry early if you are able to find that special one early enough,don't think twice oooo Sly | 9/5/2012 8:24:08 AM |
SMH. Lalaland | 9/5/2012 9:15:27 AM |
Dancing monkey put in ya request for marriage nah. You also have been left and dejected by society so you and this old bimbo are ideal for each other. cutie | 9/5/2012 4:05:39 PM |
i adore this chick.babe i back u jor.. Busayo popoola | 10/15/2012 7:51:03 AM |
The Lord we make a way 4 u,were dere is no way and the Lord we provide u the bone of ur bone and the flesh of flesh for u in jesus name.
Nana | 9/5/2012 3:41:24 AMEarly 2 bed is early 2 rise remember, r u sure u'v not dump ur real hubby among those dat proposed??? n to say u're 37, dat is a white lie, don't forget someone out there knows u well. Finally i know u r down 2 heart n straight forward, whenever u r ready chose well. Reply this thread
Chyke | 9/5/2012 4:44:10 AM |
Marrige aint by force but if you ever want to get married, u need to do it fast. 37 is just your official age yes u can never be 37, u are in your mid 40s now. Better hold a man now because age is not on your side unless u prefer adoption to giving birth. I don talk my own. Ugo | 9/5/2012 12:00:35 PM |
Na wa-ooooooo! The way u Nigerians judge women isnt fair. Why do people always use marriage as a yardstick for a woman's success or happiness? Bimbo is simply saying that the right mann hasnt come. Nobody is God. My friend married at 43 yrs and had twins a year later. Two years later she had another child. Gods time is the best. No woman wants to remain unmarried. But the worse mistake a woman can make is to marry, just bcos age is going. I bet you, u will be in perpetual hell fire. That is, if u dont die prematuerely, or run out of the marriage a year later. It is high time we all start seeing this marriage issue from a realistic point of view.
shakye | 9/5/2012 3:43:18 AMAll these UI products no dey fall hand at all. Wayyy to go girl me luv this girl damnn!!! Why just get into something to please people? Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 6:19:15 AM |
Listen here this bimbo is lying! she is just giving us a cover up story. No man done ask her to marry him that is why she is telling us this so. Trust me if the situation were of her being married she would have been praising being a married woman!
kesco | 9/5/2012 3:49:22 AMin short She means she is still available waiting for the ideal man.It is not easy to be single and above 30 in Nigeria. Male or Female. there is no "right" one. You just have to make yourself "right" for your partner. Maybe she's not good enough for the men she claims to have turned down. Just my opinion. No attacks please. Reply this thread
Tolotolo | 9/5/2012 3:56:12 AMWhat more can I say? See consolation.....My dear,I like your style jare,keep consoling yourself. Reply this thread
Tango with me | 9/5/2012 4:02:17 AMMarriage is not a big deal, neither is it worthy enough to be regarded as a remarkable goal in life. Ladies who decide to get married early can do so, and those who want to wait till later in their life should do so. The only thing I am totally against is ladies who spend a large part of their life "searching for the right person", when the lady in question is indeed the wrong person! Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 6:15:16 AM |
Some women are just so full of themselves thats why some are still single! Listen here I personally know of a woman (my cousin) actually who is soooo picky when it comes to men...she is educated and has everything which is fine. But she always used to say that she didnt want to marry a pauper man so that he wont come and chop her hard earned money. Listen eh this woman travels the world etc... When ever any man asked her out she used to think that the man wasnt good enough for her and that God has a "special" man for her and that she will wait for this man! Her mother has cried and even complained to my mom about her daughter's unmmarried state! All the conference of single and married this my cousin has attended but still she is still single cos she is waiting for a man that doesnt exist! Anyways to cut long story short she is NOW 42 and single...NO MAN IS COMING HER WAY NO MORE cos age has shown on her. All her friends and my sisters are all married but she still dey there waiting for "Mr Perfect" that NEVER EVER will exist! She wants to marry by force now. Whenever her birthday comes, we all just avoid her o cos on her birthday she must fight with somebody due to ANGER and her unmarried state that is eating her up cos of her singleness. Her mother has given up on trying to talk to her cos they are always fighting! Me sef I avoid her as much as possible. She will say when it comes to her birthday nobody should send her a birthday card o cos she doesnt want to be reminded that she is single and getting old! So the moral of my story here is that bimbo is just talking FARTY gas! Men are not looking at her anymore and even if men are looking at her, it is old married men and she knows not to go break a home. Let Bimbo just stay the way she is now cos she no fit do shakara no more due to old age! real pinapple | 9/5/2012 6:23:31 AM |
Lala hahaha i de like ue preaching for dis quick marriage matter, you no what tell ur cousin make she relocate to una village believe me before she go stay one yr one palm wine tapper go come for her or native doctor or better still an okada rider for villa cos na she do herself haha Lalaland | 9/5/2012 6:44:31 AM |
You no hear say me i dey avoid her? too much showing off and full off has led her into spinsterhood! chibuzo | 9/5/2012 9:24:47 PM |
it is hard for people to sacrifice that time to read this novel. Please dear, mariage must not make u better.
Diego | 9/5/2012 4:07:25 AMto me. many guys ar in dia 40s and stil lookn 4 gud wife wc dey may never get. my broda fell n to d category.though wit 2 kids now for smone he didnt pay her bride price. i know him 2 be womaniser livn n ajah.he dates hundreds of dem with sex nvolve year in and out until GOD delivers him. 4 ladies dat want to avoid being caught n menopause stuff and really want baby shld pray seriously to get GOD ORDAINED SPOUSE even before 35. bcause u shld hv built gud careerer at dat age. if not u wil just see dat ur younger cousions wil b grama right in front of u wil stil buildn up career. for d older guys dia u wil always see a God fearn woman out dia ready to even leave wit u n a room apartment if only u can work on ur ego. b honest and pray welly to even leave wit u n a room apartment if only u can work on ur ego. b honest and pray well Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 6:16:45 AM |
Send ya brother picha to bimbo now. am sure say she no go mind to just manage him for marriage.
Mr Handsome | 9/5/2012 4:15:49 AMI have a handfull of experince now about this issue now that am out searching for a wife. The basic truth and answer to this question is that naija girls are out for money and materials. All that any naija babes want is ' already made guys', who's working in a very good company. Surprisingly, they don't also go for just working class guys but those @ d top of their carriers. You can imagine, am a teller in a bank but these naija babes still think am too little to deliver. Honestly, this growing trend amongst naija girls is out of control and calls for a quick research to know why and how it can be discouraged amongst marrigeable girls in Nigeria so they won't continue rotten in their parent's home. Hope she finds true love . not the Nollywood version. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 5:29:03 AM |
You are right o. All these 9ja women have to do is work for their own, but even though some of them do that, they become somehow hardened that no man will be good enough for them then they become old spinsters and marry late to small boys like uche rotten teeth jumbo did! Mr Handsome | 9/5/2012 6:16:03 AM |
Our huge 4 material things is d main problem here, young girls are expensive, pushing young guy away since they cant afford a rent of 1.5m in hight profile location nor buy a car of 5m, d list is endless. For examble my girl is complainin dat im building a house @ ota, i simply ask her 2 go n buy/build @ lekki, dis a girl dat cnt afford 5 bags of cement o.Defnitely Marriage is no no b\w us. real pina | 9/5/2012 6:28:42 AM |
Naija girls don de over wide lots on these young ones between 19 to 25 that are just finishing Uni guys are coming for dem the wise ones dat knows wat de want wil quickly settle down but the f*****h ones will be looking for a guy dat will buy dem brazillan hair and bb bold 5. Imagine my younger bro telling me dat all he needs to sleep with a unilag babe is just brazillian hair i say has it come to dat for all dis girls, before de no wat is happening der time don go after several abortions nd hard pills Lalaland | 9/5/2012 9:08:11 AM |
Kai! Me I hear sef say to fhuck these women all they have to buy them sef na ordinary fake LV bad and deodorant! That is all o! Well i no blame the stewpid women...they are so dump that because they watch nollysheitwood them wanna copy their style. Mtcheeeewww!!! They all get what they deserve sha! Lalaland | 9/5/2012 6:30:03 AM |
So you now know that you aint gonna marry her abi? Ahahaahahaaa!!! Chei! You wicked sha o. Let her loose nah make you go find some one wey go contribute in ya life. Mr Handsome | 9/5/2012 7:06:50 AM |
I am not letting go until I bleep my money with interest out of her. That is the reason God granted people like me an opportunity to be dealing with her type. Lalaland You don`t not need have a broken heart to know about the materialistic nature of some Nigerian girls. The quest to live above their means leds to such a bad name.There is hardly any love remaining in Nigeria.A visit to most university show such a high level of this indespeakable situation.Do i say is a part of the corruption in Nigeria? What she doesn't realise is that after purchasing my rugged four Legs MOTO ( banger car), now chic's are dying to have me around them even to fuel my car & do some cooking for me with their own money just because, they wonted to be Green-card owner to my wonderful uncompleted Home and precious car. Lalaland | 9/5/2012 9:04:21 AM |
Hmmm with a name like HANDSOME so, you come get "money" on top of that as well, well Mr Handsome I no blame you! Chop bellyful, suck and throway like old orange. If them greedy beitches no learn that that is what they will get....keep enjoying o rocking and rolling with them greedy beitches! But my advice is that let the woman go after a while o so that another man go fit manage marry her...that is if she is still marriageable after you don suck the youth from her!
scoan | 9/5/2012 4:20:29 AMPlease ,visit scoan for ur deliverance cos I think spiritual husband is ur major problem.Once its out ,u would want to marry and have kids as quik as possible.May God help u. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 6:20:51 AM |
I agree with ya. she needs deliverance to find her missing spare ribs with barbecue sauce! Listen she no need no deliverance! She was too full of herself and drove away all suitors that is why she is now old spinster! I know her sort.
true citizen | 9/5/2012 4:34:34 AM@ scoan,, yes i agree wit u... water ll be d one disturbin bimbo but she might nt knw.. she really nid serious 3 days deliverance 2 cleanse her if nt she ll die witout marying. Reply this thread
sekele | 9/5/2012 5:57:26 AMHow long did she date those 2 guys that proposed for? who ended the relationship . did she dump them or they dump her Does it mean none of them were good depending on how long they dated for. In relationship you learn to tolerate each other. At 42,,,, African men usually prefer the younger ones. Please reconsider. The devil you is better than the one who hides behind his wealth and handsome face. Reply this thread
neca | 9/5/2012 6:16:33 AMMarriage is neva a tin to b rushd into xpecialy nw dat doz pple in It re rushn out. Is nt a mata of getn married is a mata of stayn married. Tak ur tym sha Reply this thread
Xtyshontell | 9/5/2012 6:40:11 AM1 question madam bimbo,pls do u want a toothless old man to propose to u cuz d@ is where am seeing ur bus stop,y r u full of urself looking for a perfect angelic man wen u urself ur heart n ass is as black as charcoal.no body is perfect,it is people or tins around us d@ make us a bit perfect.giving birth @ ur old age may even make d child so weak bcuz im mama n papa blood don old.d@ is y u see some young people who r looking so old wen their age is small.i don talk finish if u happen to see dem take it.bye Reply this thread
rightmind | 9/5/2012 7:08:05 AMmiss bimbo , no man s perfect and u re not perfect , u re a divorce woman for that matter not a virgin, so u re out of box , not even , u dont ve a price tag anymore, stop sleeping with small boys Reply this thread
Crap | 9/5/2012 7:08:40 AMSometimes you amaze me with your reporting style. Who are you to indirectly cast aspersions on people's life and character. A good reporter will be neutral and not report derogatorily or insinuate, believing that your readers are f**ls who cannot read between the lines. Would appreciate is you can further explain the meaning of ” Bimbo Akintola, single, searching at 37 said. It's her life numpty. Reply this thread
lolo | 9/5/2012 9:58:26 AM |
ur writing sound more lik d id u hav chosen to answer. what is paining u? You are BIMBO herself no doubt, but d reporter went straight to d point instead of beating around d bush u wanted him/her to. BIMBO u are single= very true. abi u don marry?
jasmine | 9/5/2012 7:39:24 AMmarriage is not by force,she is not submissive enough to be under any man.It is better to stay away from it than turning innocent men to divorcees.I however believe she has wasted her youthful days ,and their are no more suitors. Reply this thread
Mrs Okolo | 9/5/2012 7:55:20 AMI agreed wit most of ur comments here i wish some girls will learn. I married at d age of 24 when people sees my first child they look at me wit so much wounder some dnt even believe am married let alone having kids .i knw some people dt keeps telling me i was still young for marriage bt it happens dat am d kind of person dt cn't easyly change my mind whn i make a decision and today am happy i never listen to those people there is no perfect man out there bt through ur actions as a woman u can change ur hubby to b ur perfect man. Wit love, understanding, prayer, endurance and respect for ur hubby. I am prude to say dt i married one of d best man in d world. Who knws who i would hav ended up married if i haved missed marrying him. Ladies open ur eyes and let God guilde u before u miss ur husband because every Eve has her own Adam dnt let ur Adam pass u by. It will b difficult to find another adam. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 8:41:53 AM |
Ah you are one of the lucky ones like QUEEN OF HEARTS OMOTOLA. I hope your hubby is very good to you since you now spend all your time with us jobless pepo here on nfc. lolo | 9/5/2012 10:01:29 AM |
that age is good just lik our queen of heart omot lik lalaa said..not too young not too old is very ok..but gennyfcukingvive started gymnastic at 10. I hope u didn't do such gym so early b4 marriage sha Mama Ibeji | 9/5/2012 9:18:03 AM |
Mrs Okolo it 's easy to find love at an early age. it also has more to do with culture and environment. My mother ( a disciplinarian) started asking me questions from 19yrs if I had any boyfriend after my admission into LASU. I was shocked ! . At 23 she started asking if I had any serious relationship . I opened up about my 2yrs affair with my 29 old lover ( brilliant graduate working at petrol station then) .Took him home to meet my parents ( mum & dad wanted to see him) and I met his parents. Shocked again! at the sudden closeness of both parents. We got to know each others family by going to family events together. I was surprised my dad welcomed him. I got pregnant 2 years after and had our twins after our wedding. Marriage not very rosy then, both parents helped and supported us . Thank God my proud dad did not look down on husband , he even helped him secured jobs , that me so proud of my dad. In Naija, a 27 year old girl will not be readily accepted by most Nigerian in-laws o! Infact at that age, it is believed that the girl is desperate. 30 is "late" & is definitely the benchmark in Yoruba land. Most girls start getting paranoid from 32 upwards and can still end with wrong men. lolo | 9/5/2012 10:04:17 AM |
was he a petrol pump sales boy? then he can still qualify as oil & gas man owusagi | 9/5/2012 10:50:40 AM |
ha ha ha abeg leave iya beji husband alone, stop being cheeky! . Many graduates in Nigeria secure jobs in worst employment due to situation of the country jor. Lalaland | 9/5/2012 11:01:21 AM |
This bimbo story is now making forumites right TRUE STORY. Nfc hope you guys know that you bring pepo together sha o. Today we aint fighting cussing each other but we are sharkng real life experiences with our true stories.
Segelo | 9/5/2012 7:59:45 AMMost girls that claim to be desperate for love have no idea what they are talking about and aren't ready for love in the first place. I dated a girl like that. To the entire world, she was a paragon of virtue and wanted to get married so badly. It wasn't until I started dating her that I realized she was a carnal, gold-digging, selfish, emotional mess! There was no way I was going to marry that one for house oh! I know better now, I always avoid all those holier-than-thou desperadoes! The desperation is always a cover for an inner deficiency they are looking for a man to feel but that only God can fill. Most African parents will not agree with Bimbo, a little bit of humility will do her good. A lot of guys will think she stalk up and arrogant with her statement below in quotes. when she should be praying for herself..it seems she has lost faith in herself and it shouldn't be so. If I meet a lady that comes out with those lines , she is just going to be for good time. on the issue of children, a lot of 9ja babes wants children. Does it mean she does not care aboout either. "Some of us will marry; some of us will not. Some of us will have children, some of us will not. So I never judge myself according to other people's standard" Reply this thread
Folake | 9/5/2012 8:19:16 AMSince u already knew she's nt ur wife let her go pls,God wil grant u ur own.4d Bimbo God wil help her Reply this thread
obiangeli | 9/5/2012 8:31:34 AM2 push ladies to get married on tyme. d best place 4 u ladies 2 hook the correct bobos na university or during NYSC, after e dey hard o. wetin she dey luk since she woz 25 yrs . u tink say na joke Uni babes dey luk nice by force?. Bimbo I pity you. The younger generations are way smarter o . My 26 yrs sister wey jus finish school don bring 4 correct suitors come,,nw she wan get married to a 33yrs old guy. Thanks 2 my older sister wey dey advice since she was 21 to start shinning wen she enter university, 2 be honest 2 oder friends of hers are also getting married (24 and 26yrs ). In Nigeria lots of dese twenti something yrs old ends wit thirty sometin yrs old guys. I wld assume d at ladies in deir 30 usually end up wif men in deir 40s. sum parents start asking deir female children to bring home suitors 4rm 23 yrs so they can marry in deir 20s . most of our mother married early , most already ave grand children in deir 50s-60s. It can not be easi 4 a girl in her 40s to get spose na, especially single guys wit no issue. A rich sefdon get pikin somwia. Same Asian girls marry early , even majority oyinbo get children early. try to find out na. If na ma village dem go ask her wetin she dey luk 4rm 25-30 , then 30 -40yrs, not even children dem go tink say sometin wrong sha . i like Bimbo and sure say her parents go dey concern. Reply this thread
Nadia from Ghana | 9/5/2012 9:52:54 AMI think it is important to not be in denial and think that at 37, she still has a lot of time. Even though mathematically she does, marriage / relationships does not answer to such calculations, so she should make it a priority if she doesn't want to be in a situation where she has to eventually "settle". my Nigerian friend who is 29, soon to be 30. Professional, well-educated career lady,,earning good money but guess what she's freaking out 'cos the "right" guy is not in sight. she thinks about it a lot and cries all the time , Her depression is beginning to affect her career and refused to marry a Ghananian. As an African (or sharesAfrican values) Bimbo will have concerns no matter how much money she makes or how successful her career is. In Ghana most ladies hook the best guys when in their 20's. To be educated and settled is the pride of most parents for female children in Ghana.Without realistic expectations, a lady may keep waiting forever and all the decent guys may be all gone. Myhubby did not have a job when we met , it still didn't stop us falling in love. In we had so much fun then. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/5/2012 10:57:48 AM |
she aint 37 shes 42! You no see how rough she looks? Ah this woman wasted her youth sha o.
Asiwaju | 9/5/2012 10:07:53 AMAbeg make una leave her alone o! We like am as she like am, phuk n'go, no commitment/marriage wahala. Reply this thread
owusagi | 9/5/2012 10:24:01 AMBuilding a career does not a lady / men from getting married. I agree that if the right guy does not come around, then she can't be blamed for being single. But please, 37 is old for a lady. By 30 they end up in churches and crusades, by 35 they start their careers as wives to Jesus by being ushers in churches. Its worse if the chick aint educated. Menopause is the expiration date for ladies and I learnt it starts between the ages of 40 - 50. may be the guys should have propose to her on the phone, or on a third mainland bridge tracfic that could have look more romantic, dont you think so? she might have said YES Reply this thread
MEG | 9/5/2012 10:57:25 AMTI O BA RI SE MASE PE PADDY NI OLE,FOR THE FACT THAT YOU MARRIED EARLY DOES NOT MAKES YOU THE WISE ONE. Reply this thread
on marriage. | 9/6/2012 2:07:49 AMwhy are you deceiving yourself, come out and say no man wants to marry you, instead of defending yourself., you should be ashamed to be talking like this at 42 years., wait until you are grandma. Reply this thread
CRAP | 9/6/2012 2:10:03 AMLolo, for the records, crap is not a woman but is a happily married man with a gorgeous & VERY Beautiful wife and a son. It's unfortunate that lolo cannot see beyond his/her nose at the moment that's why his/her reasoning is overshadowed with jealousy, envy and insinuations that hold no water. For a second, why don't you think like someone that has seen the world, exposed, civilized and can reason objectively without your normal put-down, us-against them attitude before you state your position on a subject of discuss. . I live outside the country (don't bother to know), I have mixed, cohabited, worked, befriended, dined and wined (you name it) with people of the different colour, background, religion, race, sexual orientation, belief and Ideals for me to be able to identify the significant difference between objective and subjective reporting. Do yourself a favour w****r, get some freaking exposure. If you cannot travel outside your house, read more books to get the necessary education you need so you don't get on some platform to yan dust. If you are wondering what am doing on this site; here it is, I enjoy the news but I do not agree with the STYLE of reporting. It's CRAP again. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/6/2012 2:44:13 AM |
We dont care if you live on the moon or mars we honestly dont give a sheit! And this your crappy essay wey you write so is just senseless cos it is crap! Whether you marry a goat or a cow and born a chicken that is ya business we dont wanna know! Whether you sabi read book or mixed with the gays and transgender for ya planet we dont give a fhuck! So the point you were trying to write is fhuck-ka-doodle-doo! Meaning we dont give a FHUCK!!
Marcus Garvey ll | 9/6/2012 4:48:33 AMI wonder if Ms Akintola would be interested in marrying a slightly-used gentleman, who would enjoy being a house-husband. (Smileeeeee) I would stay home and make sure the children are well-taken care of, do the laundry and have her meals well-done and ready at all times, and undertake other chores to confirm that she is the queen of her castle. I am a West Indian of African descent. I adore cultures form the African motherland and I am willing to learn and adapt, including marrying in a traditional ceremony. Folks, I will get the invitations ready, just in case Ms Akintola comes cross this indirect proposal and decides to be my bride with pride. (Smileeeeeeee) Brothers and sisters, keep the positive dialogues going! Reply this thread
Miss Ghana | 9/7/2012 10:50:56 AM |
useless face mumu. where were you when uche was searching for your type? you allowed her to go marry one jumper wearing , unposable , unpresentable, mainikin.
Crap | 9/6/2012 4:52:20 AMNow let's get the record straight Lalaland or whatever CRAP you call yourself. Before I respond to you c**t. What 'are' you? Object, Man or Woman? Your age range if I may also ask? I need answers to these 2 questions before I respond to your senseless and no-brain response. Your brain is definitely under your foot. Think you gat swear words? Bring it on you plonker. Let's see what more you gat other than f*****g this or that. Reply this thread
Lalaland | 9/6/2012 6:19:39 AM |
Keep writing CRAP o! Humpty Dumpty ediot!
ANINWUDE | 9/7/2012 2:18:40 AMGood morning BIMBO AKINTOLA, there is no point cheating on your self, why because no MAN or WOMAN is good execpt GOD. If u claim d men are bad what of d women, remember if ur father did not marry there willl be no BIMBO today or if d woman ur father marry refuse him when he ask her hand in marriage there will be no BIMBO today. Also is not new to u dat men are bad if u said so what of ur father?. why did u not go to COVENT as soon as u have grown up insted of waisting all these years in acting without a husband rather u blame it on men. if u are too good why are u still single, Do u remember dat good soup do not prase its self is d people dat eat d soup dat prases d soup. so sleep,& think use anychance dat comes ur way bafore it too late. A word is enough for d wise. have a lovely weekend. cheers Reply this thread
Homeboy | 9/7/2012 3:24:55 AMWhat's news about this local she-goat that call herself a celeb? who's interested in her. Ashes Reply this thread
Marcus Garvey ll | 9/8/2012 5:44:05 AMInstead of worrying about Ms Akintola, why not give this slightly-used gentleman a try, ladies, if you brilliant, round and of sound mind and discretion, and willing to teach me Igbo, biko. Send me your parent(s)' or guardian(s)' telephone number, in order to pay the bride price and make other formal arrangements. (Smileeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee) Folks, do not be too harsh with Ms Akiotola. Remember that she is one of our sisters. Reply this thread
BeBe | 9/11/2012 9:29:40 AMMA pls I beg you WITH THE NAME OF THE GOOD GOD to wake up from your slumber now that you can still bear children and try to have one for the sake of your old age time when no one will be there for you any longer.Pls try .I rest my case!!!!!!! Reply this thread
who knows | 9/11/2012 1:17:18 PMhehe wonders shall never end...which bimbo is 37yrs.....woman tink twice b4 is 2 late 37 ko Reply this thread
Etigirl | 9/14/2012 1:21:37 AMHmmm which nigerian man wit a right sense will marry a woman of 42yrs,bimbo 4get about marriage ok Reply this thread
kirsty.E | 9/15/2012 9:35:19 PMno one knows when the right time is here, only GOD in heaven appiont and knows it. everyone who has disserted, mutilated, dismembered this lady, how do anyone of you know what's in store, don't make cheap fun of anyone... so many are suffering in their marriages, and would pay anything to get out of it......some don't even come across the word HAPPINESS AND ENJOYMENT IN MARRIAGE, some die in it.....who says or were in the bible or koran did they say this is the right age foe marriage... human can be so terrible and wicked.... please leave bimbo akintola alone... the person who ever wrote about this article is sad Reply this thread
Paula | 9/26/2012 9:22:59 AMHaving read all the posts, its no wonder that Nigeria is still in the dark ages, and will always be looked on as a primitive third world country. Reading all the comments I'm shocked by the viscous remarks and outdated views that you people have. Its no wonder that the majority of Men are so promiscuous because they probably just married anybody that came along before ' the so called sell by date' . On my recent trip to Lagos I noticed that everyone wanted to embrace the western culture whereas the majority of the inhabitants represent primitive prehistoric relics that do not have a clue. Do you not know that we abroad laugh at you people and reading these comments will surely justify this. Everyone's time is different and is ordained by God not by another human beings ideal of when the right tine should be. Bimbo is clearly way ahead of you by expressing this. Reply this thread
Thiia | 11/27/2012 2:43:23 PMI might as well buy into this and get me hidden biettn off. If responses get too rough, I'll just back away.Casey,The Armed Forces is still a hierarchical organisation based on subordination and rank. Even when it was almost all male it was an unequal organisation, partly because of the way battles are run.This masculine, hierarchic, super-disciplined structure would be the antithesis of the inclusive, equalising etc etc philosophy of feminism, no?And here is where, if I'm going to get into trouble, I'm going to get into trouble. Feminism is irrelevant to the armed forces because ithe armed forces could not function effectively if they were run along feminist principles, because such principles are opposed to the armed forces purpose, which is, primarily, war.[Waits for hordes to scream crap, etc.] Reply this thread
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