Stephanie Adie Henshaw
According what Encomium magazine reported; unknown to many, expect close friends, Stephanie Adie Henshaw has never been married before Reverend Christopher Okotie in the true sense of the word. The mother of three children from two men has rather been a victim of abuse and ill-luck with a chequered history of marital woes that ended up breaking into pieces her fragile heart. Stephanie’s first love before Okotie came into the picture was a young man she met through a friend in Lagos. With no intention of marriage, being quite young then, the innocent Calabar girl, unfortunately got pregnant for the man. She was still carrying his baby when he was shot to death in Surulere, Lagos. The tragic death of Stephanie’s hat would happen to her years after. “The pain they inflicted on Stephanie after the death of the father of her fisrt child was unbearable. One day, she was invited by the man’s people to know how the child was faring. And before she knew what was happening, they took custody of the child. She never set eyes on the boy until two, three years ago,” a highly reliable source told ENCOMIUM Weekly. We further learnt that Stepahnie’s son was taken to England where he schooled before returning to the country. He has since reunited with his mom. Stephanie Henshaw’s affair with one businessman, Mazi Okechukwu (Okey) was totally built on deceit which was not initially to the knowledge of the ravishingly beautiful lady. ”Stephanie didn’t know that Okey was a fraud. Okey told her he was not married. He was building a house back then in Omole Estate. Okey had rent a house for Stephanie in Ikeja, Lagos. And each time he sneaked out to see his first wife and children, he would say he had gone to see his mother. The day she found out the truth, she literally fainted,"our source revealed. It was in-between this affair that produced two sons that Rev.Okotie, who had been admiring Stephanie from a distance started walking into her life. ENCOMIUM Weekly learnt she was naturally pissed off with the Igbo businessman and literally needed a man she could call hers. From what we were told, Okotie staked his reputation, and risked his life to have Stephanie. “He really loved Stephanie. There was nothing he wouldn’t do for her. Okotie had cause to jump a fence for the sake of this love. Of course, you already know, he was attacked physically on several occasions all for Stephanie.
"It was this same Okey that smashed Okotie’s windscreen and all that. He, however, had to give up when it was obvious that Stephanie was no longer interested in the relationship. After all, there was no marriage to be dissolved, since there was none in the first place". A born again Christian for almost 20 years, we were informed that Stephanie has always known God despite her marital woes. Our source who had known Stephanie for many years warned those castigating her to maintain their cool. She even threatened to open up on many more issues relating to her four year marriage to Rev. Okotie if pushed to the wall. Before now, the impression engraved in people’s consciousness was that Stephanie was a widow and divorcee. an allegation her close friends and family members are now making serious effort to debunk. Relatedly, more facts are beginning to emerge, throwing more light on the remote and immediate circumstances that contributed to the crash of her marriage to Household of God’s Chris Okotie on Sunday, June 24,2012. Information at our disposal has it that Stephanie was not going to church as often as she was supposed to as pastor ‘s wife. She had also been accused of being stubborn, while another wicked allegation they fired at her had to do with bi-sexualism. Rev. Chris Okotie’s image maker, Mr. Ladi Ayodeji, in his response to ENCOMIUM Weekly’s inquiries on the issue that same day said they have no comment on any issue related to Okotie/Stephanie marriage break-up. “We have nothing to say on this issue. Please go ahead and write whatever that pleases you.”Meanwhile, Rev. Okotie is yet to say anything about why his marriage to Stephanie surprisingly crashed. He said nothing on the issue at the Wednesday (July 11, 2012), Household of God’s midweek service. That was also the situation on Sunday, July 15, 202. The charismatic preacher, who adorned a black trouser, white shirt and checked coat concentrated on the message of the day which centered on God’s power of delivery. And as has been the situation since he separated from his wife, the church was also filled to capacity. Before the church dismissed around 1.30, members born in July were not able to present a drama, No Gossip in the House, which they had earlier announced that Sunday service. July 22, 2012 marks the fifth Sunday Okotie’s marriage of four years to Efik, Cross River born Stephanie Adie Henshaw crashed. Nothing officially has come from the couple as regards their marital crisis. Reverend Okotie has maintained calculated silence on the matter since his announcement on June 24. while Stephanie only made references to her marital travails in a recent Facebook update. Culled from Encomium Magazine Click the link below to go to...More Individual Pictures Of Uche Jombo's Wedding Comedian, Teju Babyface set to wed Tobi Banjoko in September Emeka Ike is angry with Nollywood TB Joshua Exposes The Reason For #Boko Haram Killings Kefee's Ex-Hubby, Alec Godwin Gets Baby Girl 6Months After Remarrying Tonto Dikeh Offers N1m For 'Poko' Decipherment
Stephanie with Chris Okotie during their wedding in 2008
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Boss | 7/28/2012 4:33:06 AMI dnt beliv evrytin i hear or read... I cn only pray 4 them cus i knw anytin close 2 Jesus receiv attack. May God console Chris n Stephanie... Reply this thread
Aliyu Lawal IAR/ABU ZARIA | 7/28/2012 9:22:57 AM |
Guyz no matter wat u say,dis waco madam still dey,dont u glance her flyover.
Sly | 7/29/2012 3:48:10 AM |
Let this lady be,nobody's perfect. The way it looks,she's through some tough times in her life,and only God knows can judge.
Yes Boss | 7/28/2012 4:54:48 AMDis life is full of surprises. Okotie take heart. Accept my sympathy. Reply this thread
Dr. Banton | 7/28/2012 5:14:52 AMAll that glitters is not gold Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 6:49:43 AM |
You schmucks should all shut up your s***king mouths up naeh! no more dancing around the truth, this girl in question is a pure piggy p********e period. @24 she already had 3 children, 3 failed marriages including the other 2 unmentioned. so, you i***ts should tell me how many marriages would have be broken by her by the time she's 50? 20 right? Y'all there running your slanting mouths with no your smoked brain applied. well, i can see you guys want to have a taste of what pastor chris is eating. i mean, what he's done eating. Hahahahahahahaha! Zombie self dey do like complete human bein. Fvvvvvvvvvvvvv! SUPER | 7/29/2012 3:16:59 AM |
LALALAND E NO GO BETTER FOR YOU. THE MORE WE SAY IT THE MORE E SURE FOR YOU. CARRY ON. YOUR FALL IS AROUND THE CORNER
lea | 7/28/2012 5:55:07 AMMy gosh this poor lady...i dont even know what to say.The lord is your strength stephanie..sometimes being a good person doesnt pay off when evil people seem to always get away with the bad things they do.Only God knows.He will comfort,strengthen and restore you in every way Amen.He will NEVER fail you steph.God bless you and your children -why you guys use such a nagative title for something that is NOT and is so sensitive?like really you coulnt put it in a better way?smh Reply this thread
finky | 7/28/2012 6:41:23 AMMay Almighty God take total control IJN.to say d fact it is not easy.take it easy.those marriages workin it is just by d grace of God Nothin else. Stephanie N pastor Chris God is ur strenght. Reply this thread
yea | 7/28/2012 6:50:01 AMthis is not just a DAILY NEWS. but a PUNCH NEWS! Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 7:15:21 AMI say shut up you f**ls stop kising some dry asses the girl and her previous 4*9 f**kers are not good to be friendly with. i guess, you guys go to his (okotie) f*****g rave-up called church if yes, then, you all should expect to head to hell with him in no time when his time comes. You Schmoes! Reply this thread
Vicky | 7/28/2012 7:25:03 AM |
You'er so heartless in your writeup to an extent of insulting man of God don't you think you'er crossing your boundry to another? boy. i***t.
Chili | 7/28/2012 7:30:54 AM |
Guys you don't need to call this devil a devilish man is thesame lala we all know with his irritating writeups ok.
Jummy | 7/28/2012 7:45:05 AM |
What do you peeps expect from a man who have lost it all in the process of hating good things and sucessful figures in his society. just leave him let him die hating and let the demonic spirit in him keep tormenting him so that he doesn't realise his wrongs and amend it. Ngozi | 7/28/2012 8:21:21 AM |
Ediot,Zedd is a man,Lalaland is a fat old ugly frustrated woman,so don't even mix them up. Nneoma is not sly,Nneoma is a lady Zedd hates with a passion, and sly is a single man looking for a wife Online.Get your facts right. SUPER | 7/29/2012 4:49:22 PM |
Lalaland...thanks for the manual. So this is how you want us to understand your fake IDs abi. Ok we do hear but you contradict yourself a lot and even mix them up when you reply yourself in the same tone. ODE OSHI E NO GO BETTER FOR YOU. THE MORE WE SAY IT THE MORE E SURE FOR YOU. CARRY ON. YOUR FALL IS AROUND THE CORNER Lalaland | 8/2/2012 2:18:24 AM |
See how I have frustrated you fhuckers! Aha!
Scarlett. | 7/28/2012 7:27:13 AMWhat's wrong with this entity named 'zedd'? Did some lady reject ur sorry ass some time ago. Because going by your comment. You got issues...the other 2 unmentioned' was with you huh? U wish! Everyone z hoping they work it out, and you are here spewing r*****h. It's your kind of guys, women should stay clear of- boys that do not respect women. *piggy proxtitute* you call her. It takes experience to know right? Did U shoot out of the anus of some animal? Perhaps that explains it all..* May it be good 4 them in the end, either single or married... Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 10:16:50 AM |
You don't know what you'er talking about do you? Oh, you blinded pillocks expect me to follow a man-paved-way/path you all ingnorantly follows, things like that right? Capital NO! if you like call me animal or mite to all i care, i'm still the man who is not scared to hit it where it sholud hit. I know you his agent so go tell him (okotie) that HE'S A HEAVENLY REJECTED WORLDLY DOUBTED PASTOR,ok. Fvvvvvvvvvv! Scarlett. | 7/28/2012 3:14:56 PM |
I do not expect you to follow any path, because you are a deviant!..Period.. I do not know the name of his so-called church, and do not care. I only put it to you that ur libelious comments were not called for, and going by previous posts you've dropped in the past. It seems insulting women in general is your pastime. 'Heavenly rejected?' and how exactly do U know that? Are you God? You'd be suprised he would still make it past the pearly gates before you. So Hush! or keep Still.
joemark | 7/28/2012 7:55:07 AMall i have to say is that they should forgive each other like jesus did Reply this thread
Donna | 7/29/2012 2:00:56 AM |
Mr Joe, you have no idea what you are saying. If you have ever been married you cannot sit behind your computer and just go 'they should forgive each other'. I am an advocate of peace and reconciliation in relationships, but there are extreme situations where the communication lines have broken down and the issues are totally unsolvable. Only a husband and wife can sort out themselves and if they cannot deal with their issues.....so be it. Marriage is not a do or die affair. Trust me. I have been there.
BOLINTO | 7/29/2012 10:38:27 PM |
Let's pray for Pastor Chris but then a question dt must be answered is:does God endorse that marriage to Stephanie?
joemark | 7/28/2012 8:14:32 AMif really the woman love her husband nothing will make her to go out of the man even when the man ask her to go she will stay by so doing GOD will now help her on the problem she may be facing at that time or even later, but i dn't if she get marred to this man because he get money and now she find out that the money is not there, and for the man to him the woman is very pertty to him then and now she looks ugly to him now well well well am not GOD but all am saying is for they to come back again as one if really they know GOD ..........I JUST SAY MY OWN OOOOOOOOOO Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 11:00:33 AM |
You're not making any sense ok! I'm the one making it so easy! you're the one making it so s**tty! Just f**k off, b**by!
The Lady | 7/28/2012 9:36:44 AMYou most be s****d when good and reasonable people are thinking the right way and having sympathy on there follow you are there thinking from the anus, BIG f**l Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 10:31:39 AM |
You see your life you don't have a brain to tell you when it's necessry to call somenoe a f**l. but guess what? I'm not troubled by you vacuous coment so go kiss mr. Ibu assy ass. Junked junk!
Dv Archi | 7/28/2012 10:31:38 AMThe reality bout this issue is yet to come.... Still waiting. As for some retarded idiet that comment before they think my s**ts on their head forever... Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 10:50:59 AM |
What is this alien yelling about naeh? let me turn this radio station off it's so noisy and crappy! exactly is the answer i get for a b***h? pmtewwwwwwwwww!
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/28/2012 11:15:44 AM |
"What" exactly, i meant to write.
Dv Archi | 7/28/2012 10:32:54 AMThe reality bout this issue is yet to come.... Still waiting. As for some retarded idiet that comment before they think my s**ts on their head forever... Reply this thread
Dv Archi | 7/28/2012 10:33:34 AMThe reality bout this issue is yet to come.... Still waiting. As for some retarded idiet that comment before they think my s**ts on their head forever... Reply this thread
Dv Archi | 7/28/2012 10:34:14 AMThe reality bout this issue is yet to come.... Still waiting. As for some retarded idiet that comment before they think my s**ts on their head forever... Reply this thread
Onome-Dublin Ireland | 7/28/2012 11:44:11 AM |
I can't help wondering lf certain men of God are really called to the alter. From all indication(s) it suggest to me that, this Stephanie of a woman appeared like someone who loved money. Otherwise, one's experience from a previous mistake should be able to learn and be prudent in your next relationship as not for fall a victim again. When a woman is easily entice with things of the world, there is certainly no way she would not fall a victim to deceit. Now, what is her next step? after two unsuccessful reationships with three kids and one genuie crashed marriage? She Don't seems perturb, to her is the end of the world, she feel she is still pretty and hot, a lady any man with real cash could die to have. However, she is missing one point,the point here is that, too many men would be tag with you,then the society would know you have a problem of settling with one man and you will labelled as a "LAYABOUT" Sue Long Island, New York | 7/29/2012 11:44:44 AM |
I'm ashamed at ur myopic reason and lack of comprehending simple english. u just read that d 1st guy she was with died, 2nd one deceived her for years, 3rd one she managed to trust being a Man of God, it was probably hard for her after d 1st two but she took a long while b4 believn him, so how is any of it her fult, JUDGEMENTALIST, i bet u have not had a heart break and ur poor life is perfect....for ur info, if u were daft enough to read and refuse to understand...all d men are very rich and spoil her silly, she is not broke and doesnt need to like money.....u r talkn out of jealousy, broke ass doing menial job in ireland Season | 7/31/2012 1:45:07 PM |
U dont need to start exchanging words of abuse, she said what's in her mind, but instead of u telling her to watch her tongue, or u trying and talk so u make her see reasons, instead u dey add petro for inside fire. u pipoo ar very foonii.
Susan | 7/28/2012 12:31:55 PMThis is d problem wit many beautiful ladies,their beauty do deceive them. Reply this thread
james | 7/28/2012 12:59:26 PMbrother okotie go back to your bible and your first wife Reply this thread
bbbold | 7/28/2012 1:37:34 PMI tink his first wife is married wt a kid now d two need deliverance dey need prophet tb joshua's touch and d demon will confess its well wt pastor chris n is wife i pray dey get back together Reply this thread
The Lady | 7/28/2012 2:17:57 PMIf you like you can go to hell and take up permanent resident. I have already tell you my mind. Reply this thread
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥ | 7/29/2012 12:02:26 AM |
Shoooooooooooooooooooooooo!
The Lady | 7/28/2012 2:20:26 PMIf you like you can go to hell and take up permanent resident. I have already tell you my mind. Reply this thread
The Lady | 7/28/2012 2:22:12 PMIf you like you can go to hell and take up permanent resident. I have already tell you my mind. Reply this thread
The Lady | 7/28/2012 2:22:22 PMIf you like you can go to hell and take up permanent resident. I have already tell you my mind. Reply this thread
emma | 7/28/2012 9:16:05 PMplease let us consider d Fear of God in our write up.may we not be condem ijn Reply this thread
Tifeh | 7/29/2012 4:21:07 AMIf things like dis happns in d world,it shldnt happn in d haus of God,marriage is 4eva no matter anytin u're passin tru u ought nt 2 let go.the both of dem shud jst pray 2 God 4 mercy. Reply this thread
Shady | 7/29/2012 10:40:40 AMI promise this ignorant f**l that i will expose u soon.you are doomed the day u cursed uche jombo's marriage.tah b*****d man! Reply this thread
makesh | 7/29/2012 1:20:07 PMIt sad wen u c servants of God goin tru diis.God help dem. Reply this thread
Biscuit | 7/30/2012 12:35:32 AMAbeg u shld jux leave dis attention seeker,notice me quick or i go die alone. He jux wnts 2 noticed. Abeg go hug trans4ma Reply this thread
ACTION | 7/30/2012 1:15:13 PMMay God help an strengthen both of you during this trial time.What ever that led to the marriage crash, God knows it Nobody is perfect is all I can I say. Reply this thread
Zionelle | 7/31/2012 6:33:29 AMIf you derive joy in seeing someoneelse get shattered emotionally and psychologically by the ugly/ unconfirmed/ untrue stories you write, be careful and fear God. Whatever a man sows he shall reap Reply this thread
season | 7/31/2012 1:32:53 PMInstead of solving issues, u people are here attacking each other, those attacking dem selves are not cewiouse. I pray dat God with is infinit mercy, grace and love will help both of them and make them happy Reply this thread
season | 7/31/2012 1:35:37 PMInstead of solving issues, u people are here attacking each other, those attacking dem selves are not cewiouse. I pray dat God with is infinit mercy, grace and love will help both of them and make them happy Reply this thread
season | 7/31/2012 1:38:00 PMInstead of solving issues, u people are here attacking each other, those attacking dem selves are not cewiouse. I pray dat God with is infinit mercy, grace and love will help both of them and make them happy Reply this thread
kings | 7/31/2012 2:13:07 PMmuch s****d talks.....that man is a about to go to hell man.....looking for converts to go with......even the girl who calls her self a wife is f*****h....from my eelementry knowledge of the bible....the both of Them are living in grt sin Reply this thread
newcormer | 8/2/2012 7:28:30 AMI feel for Rev Chris,maybe we stop judging any of them&ask what may be wrong.if I am correct his first wife left without issue after many years of marriage.the 2nd after four years yet no child,could that be the trouble?then let's pray for them not condem.lets condem Gorvernment not individuals. Reply this thread
florzy Glo | 8/2/2012 7:47:54 AMShe has a strong foundation dat is speaking against her destiny. She need 2 go 2 a deliverance church, 4 total imaceypation, which might not b her husband area of calling by God. I pity her my poeple dis is nt joking matter or fun fair talk, jst pinch urself as if u r d one, den u will no wat she is passing tro. Different, Men for 3 gud time, soMetin is wrong or dat she has 2 check herself 2 no if she is d cause it. All I no is dat dis is a big lesson to everybody, esp d ladies,b/cos all dat gilitters r nt gold. My follow lady dis is nt time of complain, go on ur keens nd pray, den try 2. Go 2 d church elders u no ur husband will respeat take dem nd go to ur husband nd beg him, I no he will have a hearth of human. Wen u r going don't go 2 judge. Jst beg nd weep 4 his mercy. May God be wit u. Amen Reply this thread
Anyaso | 8/2/2012 8:14:54 AMPls man of God 4get about mariage n concentrate on ur ministry Reply this thread
Anyaso | 8/2/2012 8:15:36 AMPls man of God 4get about mariage n concentrate on ur ministry Reply this thread
snow white | 8/2/2012 8:50:01 AMTo Rev Chris and Stephanie marriage is a divine Sacrament among the other sacraments, ordined By God in heaven and is for better for worst Until death do you path. So bros Chris and big Sist Stephanie let by gone be bygone and the Devil be put to shame and the reunion begins I pray God to touch both of your hot minds to Cool in Jesus name Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Reply this thread
Do u read ur bible? | 8/2/2012 9:18:25 AMU said he shld focus on d ministry, is it as easy as dat? Or u jst want 2 cheap in ur own senceless words. D bible said dat b/4 u become a leader u must 1st lead ur housdhold, dat include ur wife ur kids nd people rd u. Apostle paul said b/4 any one shld be a leader u hv 2 go get a wife 1st. All dis boiss out dat God want 2 c hw u will rule or manager ur house. He wans 2 c if u can 4give cos if u can't 4give u loved once, hw can u 4give an outside. So u c d reason he shld go nd make peace wit his wife. Reply this thread
sweetsuz | 8/4/2012 1:21:54 AMSeriously,we dnt nid 2 do dat. No one knows okitie nor stephaine except wat we read on net & 90% are false just 2 get attention &market their product. UntiL we u/stnd, we will continue 2 insult ourselves. When a HUMAN is in a situation dat he / she can't help, let's pray 4 dem coz we dnt no wat will happen 2 our marriage also. No 1 prays 4 a situation like dis. Lastly, be u a man of GOD or born again,it takea d grace of GOD 2 over come circumtances & situation as long as u av dis flesh. Unite NIGERIA. Reply this thread
Ken | 8/14/2012 1:31:45 PMPls cn sb tel me wen she il she b tired of breakin hearts.got p 4 d first man,had an illegit.affair dat produced 2 childrn n now a pastr.doz she tink she is u.s.a or britian whr get here,get there is d oda of d day.say d simply trut,can u marry a wman lik dat wt dis antecidence.wat a f**k Reply this thread
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Blesn | 9/2/2012 9:19:01 AMPls let chris get back 2geda wit wifey...shey he use 2 realy love her&was willing 2 fly over d fence 4 her&stephanie also fell in lv with him.these 2 can work it out.sm1 should b willing 2 say im sory even if its 4 100 tyms. Reply this thread
Blesn | 9/2/2012 9:19:01 AMPls let chris get back 2geda wit wifey...shey he use 2 realy love her&was willing 2 fly over d fence 4 her&stephanie also fell in lv with him.these 2 can work it out.sm1 should b willing 2 say im sory even if its 4 100 tyms. Reply this thread
Blesn | 9/2/2012 9:19:33 AMPls let chris get back 2geda wit wifey...shey he use 2 realy love her&was willing 2 fly over d fence 4 her&stephanie also fell in lv with him.these 2 can work it out.sm1 should b willing 2 say im sory even if its 4 100 tyms. Reply this thread
Blesn | 9/2/2012 9:21:43 AMPls let chris get back 2geda wit wifey...shey he use 2 realy love her&was willing 2 fly over d fence 4 her&stephanie also fell in lv with him.these 2 can work it out.sm1 should b willing 2 say im sory even if its 4 100 tyms. Reply this thread
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