WOW | 7/21/2012 2:02:11 AMthat mean u have it too but i must advice u broda,there is nothing like HIV OR AIDS,Just kw dis from 2day. Reply this thread

Nolly | 7/21/2012 2:59:38 AMHahahahhahaha....na firstlady be the woman wey get Aids oohhh!...pls oga make sure u send her packing! Reply this thread

Teema | 7/21/2012 3:09:59 AMMe i hav n advise o cos dis is a terible situatn. Reply this thread

Teema | 7/21/2012 3:13:14 AMPls cn i know u cos u sound humble nd nice. Reply this thread

Matt | 7/21/2012 4:12:15 AMLove bearing everythings Reply this thread

mrfest | 7/21/2012 5:28:54 AMdnt leav d women,an mak sure take care of her.may God wil give u solution it,gooday. Reply this thread

Horlami | 7/21/2012 6:53:40 AMPls care 4 her Reply this thread

BIODUN | 7/21/2012 7:26:18 AMPls don,t send her out,a friend in needs is a friend in deed that is what she want now. Reply this thread

jacqueline | 7/21/2012 8:32:45 AMDidn't u check her before getting married or was it after u had ur son then u knew she had d hiv/aids if it was after then she was sleeping around since u don't have it nd ur son will advise just support her in d little way u can but don't send her away Reply this thread

Tosin | 7/21/2012 10:30:56 AMPls dnt leave her she nid u nw mor dan eva. Bt d ?s is dt wen did she contact d hiv? Is it B4 or after ur marriage wit her. In oder nt to go same route jst tk vry gud kia of her n her son cos dt is her hapinessn.cheers. Reply this thread

"O" | 7/21/2012 11:40:44 AMIs this all about reverse psychology or what? To be honest, I really for the life of me can't figure out this man... Yes, I don't know anything about him beyond what I've just read, so yes, I sincerely have to ask this question with no malice or prejudice attached - is this man the most egotistical, confused, and cursed human being to ever walk the face of the earth? Or, do you believe him? I don't!

I would like to rewrite the story like this....Because of his tumultuous romantic lifestyle, he has married three times... Having produced three children with the first wife, left her after beginning an affair with the lady who would later become his second wife. While still married to her (the second wife), began an affair with another woman! Got married to the later after the former died in a ghastly auto crash..Contracted HIV years back! Thinking between blaming his wife and coming clean...
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Jesy iyke | 7/21/2012 12:20:47 PMD man 2 much 3 wives only him y he no get hiv Reply this thread

u.c | 7/21/2012 9:00:50 PMwell u gerderd an ant by firching firewood,u jump 4r one woman to another now letly knowing de fact that she is HIV pacient so enjoy it cos u got wat u wanted
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Nwa mummy | 7/22/2012 2:02:17 AMHave marcy on her pls it is d work of devil. Reply this thread

Do Good | 7/22/2012 2:51:12 AMNo pls don't leave her,if u go to general hospitals u will see so many of them there,my only advice
To u is for u to show her love,care,register her in a clinic where she can be going for counseling
$ treatment ok,and give her a lot of fresh vegetables,fruits and good food ok
If u do all this u will see her look more healthier,heftier $ more lively the more day goes on ok
$ pls u people need to be careful with sharp objects like knife,razors,needle $ pins do not share with her
Ok,always use condom it doesn't matter ok,u can't get it ok,and God will see u all through in Jesus name Amen! Reply this thread

Madjack | 7/22/2012 5:19:19 AMMr man!, ask yourself that question. A f**l at 40s is a ---------------------------!!!!!!!!!!!!, you know what I mean. If you can´t settle down & train all the kids God gave to you during all your marring marring saga.
I guess you are the one spreading the HIV, you want to marry everyone that put on skirt, don´t know if you are the only person that has JohnThomos. Selfish!
(NB) Point of correction all these writers, you ppl should give us goodnews abt our Film world & important news, not making ppl get tiered of entering this page. Reply this thread

heal the world | 7/22/2012 7:03:21 AMHey,if u leave her,are u sure of another woman,u are going to meet next...Thats why,u have to treat her like ur queen,u dont have it ur child have it,just keep it up..and keep ur happy home going... Reply this thread

Joy | 7/22/2012 11:46:07 AMCan someone explain this to me? I can't understand. She has been getting treatment for 15years , about 13years before getting married to this man. They have been having unprotected sex for about 2 years yet the hubby is HIV negative? It's either this story is a hoax or the test results for the hubby and son are incorrect. On the other hand, if this is a true story, i suggest you take your wife to get tested else where. If you are not HIV positive then your wife is HIV negative. Reply this thread

Joy | 7/22/2012 12:41:29 PMCan someone explain this to me? I can't understand. She has been getting treatment for 15years , about 13years before getting married to this man. They have been having unprotected sex for about 2 years yet the hubby is HIV negative? It's either this story is a hoax or the test results for the hubby and son are incorrect. On the other hand, if this is a true story, i suggest you take your wife to get tested else where. If you are not HIV positive then your wife is HIV negative. Reply this thread

abey | 7/23/2012 3:34:28 AMFirsly, did she tell u she was HIV posite b4 u married her cos according to u,u married her in 2010 bt she has been carrying d sickness for 15yrs now. Secondly, u said u can't not use condom wc I agree with u not everybody enjoys using it. Thirdly, u v been avoiding her since u found out dt she is positive and u are negative wc has really answer ur question. Finally, she has an issue for u bt u can't get intimate with d mother of ur child. D ball is in ur court as for me we will go our separate ways.
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manu | 7/23/2012 5:07:41 AMmr Man for the fact that u ve married severally u shld find a way forward to stay with this ur wife and this is when she needs u most Hiv is no longer a death warrant she has had it for 15 yrs like u said u can as well assist her in caring more for her to live longer than necessary with ur child
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Opeyemi | 7/24/2012 1:54:06 AMIt ls very adviseable 4 u 2 let her be like that if u knw that you won't bear a child anymore but if u know that u still want 2 bear baby again l beg send her away becauses if u use comdom everyday 1 day will b 1day which u wil not remember 2 use it that means u wil affect.and also if u are the 1 that av that diseases that same ur wife wil leave u 4 another man.so therefore think twince and consider ur life Reply this thread

TIM | 7/25/2012 3:57:31 AMis just because your viral load are undetectable when you test .wait 10 years.your wife is hiv but she is not dirty right.and she is not going to die frm aids, with treatment she will live longer ,but if you love her you will stay with her but if you dont you will run away like man without balls .if you love her you will love her as someone you cant live without,if i were you i will love her i even not protect myself . you are afrid of hiv otherwise,lol Reply this thread

rita | 7/27/2012 7:09:28 PMi'm sorry to inform this man, but i suspect he is hiv positive. if he has been having sex with her, his body has contracted the virus, but he has not reached the stage where it can be easily detected yet. that is what made him get sick in the first place. but this is also sketchy, because, he claims they've been married since 2010, so by all principle, he should have been showing signs and symptoms of infection. unless we are to believe he actually got tested when the virus was still undetectable, and has since not gone back to get retested. he should do so, so that he can know what the real deal is, and start taking appropriate action to treat himself. i sincerely hope he is not infected, i pray he isnt. what a truly despicable woman. knowing her status, and keeping it from him. it was her intent to infect and trap him in the first place. she had no regard for his health. this woman is a dangerous person. if he decides to stay, she would be forever afraid of losing him, and might one day plot to properly infect him. the right thing for him to do, is to leave. for safety reasons. but since there is a child involved, he should stay, but be very wary of her. hiv is not a life sentence. in america, they live healthy, long lives, and even disclose it, and receive overwhelming support. dunno why it has to be different here. go on youtube and see inspiring stories. one of my favorite is brybryvaughn; an hiv positive man, who has risen from the ashes and embraced his ordeal. God bless you all. Reply this thread

ij | 7/29/2012 7:08:00 PMit all depends.
1.did she tell you she was hiv positive. I think that is one of the main thing she should have mentioned in the early stage of ur relationships.
2... Since u are already in the marriage, just use protection and love.her like u never found out... Reply this thread

stardom | 8/11/2012 2:23:11 PMyhe problem i have with dis lady is why she had to hide her status from her husband that is wickedness,but wat has happened has hapend just support her all the way and use a condom.and make sure u run a test every 3month. Reply this thread

peeps | 8/11/2012 8:08:29 PMLet her go. However you can continue to be a moral support and help her with spiritual guidance. Be there for her in any way you can. She put your life in jeopardy, but show compassion and offer support. Reply this thread

Precious | 8/21/2012 3:08:04 PMSir,i ture dat ur wife is carryin hiv,pls i advise 4 u 2 keep her home nd bear it Reply this thread

Master celestine | 8/21/2012 3:18:47 PMWel,all hope is nt lost ur wife cuse is jst a simple wit god,bt my advise 2 u is dat no matter wat d pple says abt her,she most mak it in jesus name Amen!!so d'nt worry abt dat okey!!!(08131223434)thanks Reply this thread

Prince | 8/27/2012 12:21:20 AMMy brother God will see you through but do not think of living your wife because of hiv bcos there is a lot of killer diseases out there that is worster than hiv, what is scaring people about hiv is the name given to it but is no more a killer diseases , just get her the drugs both of u will live as many yrs as God wanted, i will also advice u to take her to Prophet TB Joshua and see what God can do through the man of God. people die of hiv because of their ignorance so take a bold step now God loves you all Reply this thread

Justice | 8/27/2012 1:42:49 PMYOU ARE SUCH A BLABBER, TALL STORY TELLER!!! Reply this thread

Nnenna m.j | 10/6/2012 8:01:14 AMI wil advice u n 2 mind de situation she is ur wif wha u ned 2 do is 2 show her lv n care since mariage is beter 4 worse getin anoda wif do u no de 1 she get.mr man mind ur sefoooo Reply this thread

GOD | 10/25/2012 10:56:07 PMIt's not a human anymore get a new sexy wife. Reply this thread

ayobami | 11/12/2012 3:29:17 PMJoust prey to God nothing know if do ,bros pls don't leave your wife Because God know why you and your children know have HIV&AIDS pls don't leave your wife
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shantie | 12/10/2012 6:10:45 AMi think i am HIV positive, what are the possible signs that i am suppose to look for i am afraid to visit the doctor. Reply this thread

joyce kgobai | 1/5/2013 10:26:31 AMyah dts d trth cz she ws sps 2 tl u 4rm d strt. Reply this thread

portia mafuleka | 2/12/2013 4:17:41 PMI'm south African woman dating a Nigeria guy who HIV + but he's in. I met him 2010 the funny thing is that we did not use condom for 4month before I found out his status. He cheated on me that when I decided that he must go for hiv test, or its over betwen us and he agree. When he got the results he call me and told me that he's negative I was happy and forgave him and gave himsecond chance. Weekend I went to visit him 2 hv a quality time as usual. When I got there he was wt his friend nd after few min his friend decided to leave and give us our space. My man escoted him to his car and I was left alone in the house. His wallet was on top of the bed, wt some coins lying on the bed I decide to open it and put the coins back. Then I checked his aslam paper for expring date cos I always force and remind him to renew it. Then walla the test result were also there folded inside his aslam paper. As open reading the result I emmediately had a running stomach. Mr ..............hiv1 nd hiv2 tested +, he came in the while I was having his result on my hands shaking and crying. I knew my status before meeting this guy. I was HIV - now all that was in my head was death. Why did he hide it from me? Somebody tell me. instead he tear them nd told me that these no such thing as HIV aids, he doesn't belive in this s**tty results. I was paranoid I did all kind of test, I mean all cos money was not a problem. Every 3 months I tested and I was negative, the last test was on Sept last year still neg. Am I HIV resistace? The doctors are telling me that in lucky. I wonder What is the real explaination for this cos in that 4 moths we ha sex everyday that how well we clicked. I loved him decided that I wil support him, bt he during sex he refused to condomise so I left him. I just feel sorry for woman in Nigeria cos yo man are sick an don't use condom they will come there and infect all of u, here in south africa hiv is very high and most people are sick we see them dying some are sent home, while others are berried here. Mind u most south Africans are spreading it. I hate people who keep quiet abt their status so they may infect others. This woman knew she was sick for 15 years what support does she need ? She said nothing to this guy, what was her plan to infect him obviosly. So my brother do yo self a favour an leave that woman. Cos if she loved u she would have told u when u met to protect u bt no she wanted distroy u. Reply this thread

Becky | 3/29/2013 2:56:44 AMI am hiv+, a widow n ve 3 healthy boys hiv-, l v so many men tat talk 2 me for a relationshp, l cnt go into it bcos of my status. I feel is painful 2 infect sm1 else all in d name of love. As l write this note,one of d men is getg maried next wk, it should v bn me, but l refusd, bt he thought l heatd him tat much, of wat gain is it, hw wil it luk lik when he gets 2 kw. Swored love right? If only he new y. He wil b ever b tankful 2 God. Hiv is like malarai nw, b wise! I nd a man like me, so tat we can leave our lifes 2gther. Reply this thread

lee | 5/12/2013 5:48:55 AMmy wife has it and if i get it from her. to be honest idk if going to stay with her or leave ...just hope I don't have it she better pray I dont Reply this thread

No Name | 5/14/2013 12:43:52 AMStay with her till she dies, then go. Reply this thread