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This is for others out there, confidentiality of our mail senders is always highly kept secret and never disclosed. Thanks for believing in us. Happy reading "Hi readers, I just want to share my true life story with you so that you can learn from it. We are human beings, we make mistakes every day but it left for you to learn from your mistakes.
"My name is 'anonymous' I wont mention where I come from for security reasons. I met this guy in 2001 when I was writing WAEC, his name is GuyA. We fell in love.
"He was everything a woman would ask for; he is fair, handsome, intelligent and God fearing, he loved me so much, he shared the little he had with me, he was willing to do anything I ask for though he didn't have much because he was still in second year at university of Nigeria, Enugu campus.
"He did everything possible for me gain admission into the university. I eventually gained admission in 2003 at Enugu State University of Science and Technology and graduated 2007.
"I don't know what came over me. I had a fling with this guy named GuyB. Though I never loved him, but I became pregnant for him. I didn't know what to do, but terminating the pregnancy was not an option. I didn't want to lose GuyA. It was as if my world has crumbled.
"I didn't tell anybody not even my best friend because I never could tell what would happen if I did. I made a smart move by telling GuyA that I was pregnant for him.
"Of course, he believed me because he trusted me so much but I betrayed his love for me. He came to see my people, though my parents are dead.
"I eventually put to bed; a baby girl. This was in 2008. Do you know what my baby was exactly the carbon copy of GuyB; the guy I had a fling with?
"I was not surprise because I knew the pregnancy wasn't GuyA's but I thought the baby would've resembled me. Of course, I was wrong. GuyA accepted us even when he knew the baby does not look like him or me.
"Ever since, I have been dying in silence. My conscience kept killing me. At a point, I hated my own child seeing a picture of another man in her.
"My husband, GuyA loved her so much more than anything.
"In 2010, I had another baby boy for my husband. My joy knew no bounds. I was really happy, my husband was happy as well.
"In 2012, I had another baby boy for my husband, GuyA. Even at that, he loved my daughter more than her two biological sons. At a point, I became jealous but what can i do. I just couldn't bear it anymore so I decided to give my life to Christ and beg God for forgiveness which I know he has done.
"This I did because I couldn't continue to die in silence. It was now for me to confess to my husband but how would I achieve that without breaking my home? I didn't want to loose my home, I loved my husband and my kids.
"He is a wonderful man but I betrayed him. I prayed and asked God to give me the strength to confess to him.
"On the set day, I first called him on phone to ask him if he would ever forgive me. He asked what I meant by that. He asked if I was alright and I said yes. He hanged up on me. I cried like a baby.
"When he came back from work that same day, I served him his dinner. After that, I went with him in the room and told him to forgive me that he should not punish our daughter for what she does not know about but punish me.
"He asked again what I meant by that. I narrated everything that transpired between GuyB and I. To my greatest surprise, he dropped a bombshell. He said he knew all these years that he was not the biological father of our 4-year old daughter.
"I asked him if he knew about it and didn't bother to ask me? He said that he knew that someday I was going to tell him but he never knew it would come this soon.
"It was as if the ground should open and swallow me. I was so ashamed of my self that I bowed my face in tears but he cuddled me and said he'd forgiven me long ago. He said that we pray every day OUR FATHER FORGIVE US OUR SINS AS WE FORGIVE THOSE TRESPASS AGAINST US, why won't he forgive me?
"He said no one is perfect and that we make mistakes in life. He said that I was a nice person and that we have been through a lot in life. So, he cannot abandon me now that i needed him most. He told me that he could possibly throw me out so that people will laugh at me but he has always loved me.
"As for my daughter, as far as he is concerned, she is his daughter. He's has always seen her as one and that he will always love us. These were his words.
"I was short of words, all I could do was to cry and thank him and thank God for the kind of man he has given me because I know that no man would take that from any woman no matter what except by the special grace of God.
"I am now a happy person and I have given my life to Jesus Christ. We must learn how to confess our sins no matter what so that Satan will be put to shame and as well learn how to forgive.
"We now live in the UK. I also had my two boys in the UK.
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Nneoma | 6/14/2012 5:42:43 AM
We all make mistakes in life, but our ability to realize our mistakes, repent of it and beg for forgiveness is not always an easy task. So i commend u 4 d positive actions taken in freeing ur conscience. Welldone & enjoy ur marriage. Reply this thread
hapiiiiiiiii | 6/14/2012 5:56:43 AM |
am happy for u girl...am jst hapi u v an understanding husband..guys like guyA r hard to find dese days.....
Dachic | 6/14/2012 6:40:32 AM |
the story is really tourching... But dont know y people lie so much (especially in stuffs like this) Madam, am happy for U, for turning to God n confessing. Pls do support ur husband oo in all.
Oh God plsss !!!! Give me guyA. See his qualities:
Caring, God fearing, A forgiving spirit, father and a husband.
Lalaland | 6/14/2012 7:34:52 AM |
GuyA sound like a man with no balls!
Dachic | 6/14/2012 8:34:52 AM |
guy, from the story u make sense cos y would the Man say he knows d child isn't his and refused to confront d woman. Okey lets say he doesn't want d woman to be angry then he would 've gone for a DNA with out d woman knowing.
Well.. Lalaland dear, i wish dem well.
Crystal | 6/14/2012 6:54:03 AM |
woman, b grateful everyday, ur man is a scarce commodity in d market of men. He's either perfect or he's got his own bombshell 2 reveal 2 u.Bottomline, operate in truth and face d reality of ur problems, no nid procastinating!
Adamu Garba | 6/14/2012 7:12:38 AM |
In the beginning, were u using contraceptives with Mr. A?
Was ur getting preggy for Mr. B after just one fling a miracle?
Did u ever care to inform Mr. B u have his Blood Daughter?
Do u intend to keep Mr. B in the dark about his daughter forever?
What will u tell his daughter in future when she asks to meet her real Dad?
If u have really given ur life to Christ u should unite Mr, B with his daughter
Seems the Devil will continue to be on ur trail until ur daughter knows her REAL Papa
May God grant u a complete REST OF MIND on this “Child's True Paternity” issue.
Mrs Akudo | 6/14/2012 8:20:57 AM |
Heee! heee!! heee!!! wetin una dey think all these days eh? why una dey bring all dis unfortunate unfortunate stories say na una readers send dem?? if una no bring story about woman wey wan make im husband lick im kini ko, una go bring d gal own wey get belle come do d nd c,nd dis present one na, and d worse bsay una dey talk say na una readers?? una readers no be d pepl wey dey comment? d pepl wey dey comment no be we?? mrs Akudo,Lala nd Lolo, Anna, Nneoma,Charisma, President,Sly,Tick,Lumy, Enforcer, Mr nd mrs Adamu nd Cutie Garba, 'O', Chiyoma,Happiiiii, Z£dd, Firstlady,Crystal,Someone somewhere,Taiwo,plus including other echetarom echetarom (etc)pepl? so who amongs us come send una all these??? nfc answer me o,coz I dey wait.
"O" | 6/14/2012 11:55:31 AM |
Dear sister,it beggars belief,isn't it? I can assure you that I didn't post any of the articles! I only visit here to read, digest, and send reply to some posts!
Hope you are having a great day!
Princess | 6/14/2012 3:44:17 PM |
mrs Akudo LWKMD! This woman can't stop being funny...my dear I like you, you are my model.Hope your family is ok.
Lalaland | 6/14/2012 6:17:37 AM |
How can you have the heart to deceive a man for all these years? Why can't you just tell him striaght up? This is common practice for most marriages sef. Anyhoo you are lucky that you gave him two boys cos nigerias mans likes sons otherwise you and your dorta for become homeless!
Nneoma | 6/14/2012 6:55:06 AM |
Hehehehehehe......Did dude called wld have bn better off a comedian than a crime dictator, lolzzz.
Angel | 6/14/2012 10:31:52 AM |
That man is truelly a God fearing man, He truelly loves that woman for him to have accpeted that child, even though he knew she was not his... Woman, never you make such mistake again. I am happy for you and your great husband.
Lalaland | 6/15/2012 1:22:36 AM |
The man sounds more like mumu o than God fearing! Mtchew!
Angel | 6/15/2012 3:56:08 AM |
That is what people do say, when a man is wise and God-fearing; people call him a jew/mumu. But it is only God that makes him wise, he doesn't want to loose his lovely wife because he knew she was f*****h and she made such mistake. so she has to be forgiven.
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 6:57:38 AM |
DO I HEAR YOU SAY WELL DONE! FOR WHAT EXACTLY? FOR HOW CAN SOME ONE MAKE LOVE WITH GUY A THAN FALL PREGNANT TO GUY B ONLY TO COME MARRY GUY Z,NNE CHECK THIS OUT,FOR EXAMPLE YOU SLEPT WITH MARIMAR@T OR WHAT EVER IS HIS NAME IS, THEN YOU FALL PREGNANT WITH LALALAND, HOW POSSIBLE? HAHHAHAHA AM CONFUSED HERE
Mrs Akudo | 6/14/2012 8:25:53 AM |
Hahahahahahahahaha! which kain example u take my baby Nneoma give so? Abeg o,no be my own Nnebekee get bele 4Lala. Na only Lolo get d certificate 2carry bele 4 Lala.
Nneoma | 6/14/2012 8:33:43 AM |
I said welldone 4 freeing her conscience bcos its not easy to make such a confession. She made love to both guys but got preggy 4 guyB according to her story wich is very very possible. So there is nothing strange about her story bcos it happens everyday.
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 9:01:05 AM |
AS LONG AS I AM CONCERNED SHE SAID SHE MADE LOVE WITH GUY A GOT PREGNANT FOR GUY B,COME GO MARRY GUY Y COME GO TELL HER STORY TO GUY Z[N.F.C]
DIVINE | 6/14/2012 5:53:43 AM
enjoy ur marriage and sin no more Reply this thread
Babes | 6/14/2012 6:52:27 AM |
Love ur comment dear
Charity | 6/14/2012 5:56:07 AM
we really nid God's help. This is a touching story Reply this thread
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 5:56:11 AM
WHAT A MINUTE WHO IS ON TOP OF WHO UP THERE? Reply this thread
Tick | 6/14/2012 6:22:24 AM |
That is to tell you that is only a woman who knows the father of her child,
as your husband has forgiven you so also God has forgiven you too.
Kaufhof | 6/14/2012 8:48:55 AM |
The drama happened forthnight ago in Kenya similar with the topic at hand,women cheating and
Back to topic,the truth is the girl dont looklike you either,So you're afraid that someday
problem or Dna issue may spring up.So you commited yourselve to God,and God help you out.
My advice,If you leave your ass from God,you will ever regret this day who let the cat out of the bag.
Alex | 6/14/2012 6:01:14 AM
U made a gud decision nd u hv chosen a rit path. It is wel wit u, may de good lord bless u nd ur house hood. Reply this thread
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 6:25:38 AM
FROM GUY A TO GUY B, NOW THEY ARE UP TO GUYZ,YOU ARE SENT TO SCHOOL TO STUDY YOU NOW WENT THERE TO STUDY GUY A AND GUY B, YOU SLEPT WITH GUYA THEN FALL PREGNANT TO GUY B COME GO MARRY GUY Z , NONSENSE Reply this thread
BOB | 6/14/2012 6:35:03 AM |
HONESTLY MR PRESIDENT YOU ARE THE REASON I READ THIS FORUM YOU ARE VERY VERY FUNNY,FROM WHAT YOU WROTE ABOUT MONALISA I MEAN WHERE YOU SAID SHE WILL SOON STEP OUT WITH MASQURADE, AND YOUR BEEF WITH NNEOMA, ABEG MAKE UNA NO MAKE UP I WAS ENJOYING YOUR COMMENTS,ESPECIALLY WHERE YOU SAID SOME THING OF OKE RIE ONWUO, YOU MOST BE FUNNY IN REAL PERSON.
Dachic | 6/14/2012 6:55:10 AM |
dont mind the s****d President, he also had beef with me.
I guess he enjoys himself quarelling with ladies. Call him Woman Wrapper..
BOB.. Am not sure ur Okey oo.. Can you imagen, tell him not to make up with Nneoma.
BOB or BOLOMBOLO wat eva ur name is, U are a trouble maker.
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 7:16:23 AM |
THIS GIRL YOU LIKE MY GINGER AND SWAGG THAT YOU CANT ADMITT, YOU KEEP SEARCHING FOR MY COMMENTS,ARE YOU NOT THE ONE WHO START A FIGHT WITH ME, AS FOR BOB YOU MUST START WHAT I CALLED READING FEE,
Dachic | 6/14/2012 7:43:30 AM |
Where is your Lady HEAVY....lol .. Am sure i talked sense into her so she disapeared..... Hahahahahah
you seems to be every where on dis Topics. One question pls : are you on Leave from work?
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 8:00:03 AM |
RIGHT NOW CHATTING FROM MY MOBILE PHONE, DRIVING HOME FROM THE OFFICE, WHY DO YOU ASK? YOU WANNA COME OVER?
Dachic | 6/14/2012 8:44:36 AM |
Just curious oooo.. Cos the way u comment on every topic seems like ur Jobless......lol..
Secondly, U see wat am saying.. How can u be driving n commenting, Isn't dat ARA' lol.
As for coming over NAHHHHHHHHH !
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 9:08:42 AM |
I WILL BE PARMENANTLY LEAVING THIS SITE , I KNOW YOU WILL FALL SICK BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE HEARING FROM THIS DUDE [PRESIDENT] ANY MOMENTS FROM NOW.
Nneoma | 6/14/2012 8:50:25 AM |
Dachic, dont mind Bob. Too bad 4 him bcos i already made up with presdo as long as he dosent cross by lines again. Maybe he shld take over 4rm where presdo stopped. As 4 dat heavy load u asked 4rm presdo, he's a man oo! not a woman, he a gay making out with presdo. President am i lying?
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 9:05:31 AM |
NNE YOU SEE WHAT AM TALKING ABOUT I HAVE MADE YOU FAMOUS, INCLUDING BOB, DACHIC ALWAYS FOLLOWING MY COMMENTS TO KNOW WHAT WILL COME OUT OF MY MOUTH FOR EVERY TOPIC,
jessica, | 6/14/2012 6:29:41 AM
We thank God 4 his mercy, to him alone b all d glory! Ur husby is an hero!pls make sure u train thoes children in d fear of God, espercially ur girl, so dat she does nt make dsame mistake, remember d devil is an accusar of d brethern! Stay blessd! Reply this thread
sandy | 6/14/2012 6:32:46 AM
its not easy thou,but ,tht guy has the hrt of God....enjoy ur home. Reply this thread
ng | 6/14/2012 6:51:41 AM
wow, i am crying and hace just been reminded by a similar story i once listened to an interview by Paula White to a couple that went through the same thing....marraige under cover...google it Reply this thread
PRESIDENT | 6/14/2012 7:22:24 AM
THE POSITION OF THAT PICTURES UP THERE MEEEN I HAVE A PROBS WITH IT,IT IS AWKWARD, NO STYLE NO ENERGY, Reply this thread
ENERGY | 6/14/2012 8:35:17 AM
Am hapi 4 u both, ur husband, special u, gud wel bless and ur family 4 ur act Reply this thread
Lugi | 6/14/2012 10:17:51 AM
why are you guys living the point of the story, dis woman was an ingrate how do you sleep at night during dos period? Reply this thread
Apple | 6/14/2012 10:45:42 AM
He is a great guy, but women forgive this kind of sin every day so........................... Reply this thread
Afric.B | 6/14/2012 1:41:36 PM
Dis is so touching dat man is one in a million nd may God continue 2 bless ur marriage lady u r favoured Reply this thread
DARN | 6/15/2012 2:52:35 AM
oh my God what q blessed story, have leant alot from it. may the good Lord continuel to bless u and ur family. Reply this thread
ACTION | 6/15/2012 6:33:31 AM
WOWWWWWWWWWW THATS GREAT FROM ME GUY A..GOD REALLY ANSWER OUR PRAYERSOOOOO....I AM GUY A. ANY GIRL .... TOO 4 ME OUT THERE? Reply this thread
WHO CARES | 6/15/2012 10:00:55 AM
WOMAN DONT BE TOO HAPPY THAT UR HUBBY IS A SAINT, HE IS ONLY WAITING FOR THE GIRL TO MATURE SO HE CAN START ENJOYING HER FRESH JUCY POT SO BEWARE Reply this thread
WHO CARES | 6/15/2012 10:12:26 AM
WOMAN DONT BE TOO HAPPY THAT UR HUBBY IS A SAINT, HE IS ONLY WAITING FOR THE GIRL TO MATURE SO HE CAN BE DIPPING IN HER FRESH HONEY POT, BEWARE
PLS NFC POST MY COMMENT, DONT KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS UR YEYE SITE. Reply this thread
david | 6/30/2012 9:36:55 AM
If the story is true, those are real exra exra born again Christian that Jesus talk abt.
after reading your story i ask myself as a Christian can i do what the man did?
please allow to copy this story on my F:B either real or not it teaches sence. Reply this thread
BIG FISH | 7/1/2012 1:10:42 AM
GLORY BE TO GOD.GUY A IS A REAL MAN,HE HAS HEART OF DIAMOND NOT GOLD,NOT EVERY MAN CAN DO IT,I DON'T KNOW IF I CAN DO IT,HE DID THE RIGHT THING AS A BORN AGAIN CHRISTAIN,WE HAVE TO FORGIVE ONE ANOTHR BCOS NOBODY IS PERFECT,I JUST FEEL LIKE CRYING,TEARS OF JOY,BUT MADAM GO AND SIN NO MORE,HE HAS FORGIVEN U BUT HE CANNOT FORGET MIND U,PLAY A ROLE OF A GOOD HOUSEWIFE,RESPECT HIM,BCOS HE IS A GOD SENT TO U,MAY GOD BLESS UR HOME,THIS IS A REAL LESSON FOR SOME LADIES OUT THERE,WHO GOT PREGNANT FOR A GUY,E,AND GAVE IT TO GUY F,DNA WILL PROVE U WRONG,U BETTER CONFESS NOW,BEFORE GUY F,FIND OUT HIMSELF, Reply this thread
MBATWENTA | 7/6/2012 6:57:51 AM
I LOVE YOUR REPENTANCE AND RESTITUTION. I PRAY GOD TO LET YOUR HUSBAND EAT THE FRUIT OF HIS FAITHFULNESS AND FORGIVENESS EVEN HERE ON EARTH. BUT FOR YOUR RESTITUTION TO BE COMPLETE, PLEASE TAKE THE DAUGHTER OF GUY B BACK TO HIM NO MATTER THE LOVE YOUR HUSBAND IS SHOWERING ON HER, IF ACTUALLY YOU WANT TO MAKE IT TO HEAVEN. THINK ABOUT IT PLEASE Reply this thread
Steve | 7/20/2012 1:33:47 AM
climateWhy do you take for granted, that takobllle was a member of the organisation committee? As a member I would have expected him getting a full copy of Gavins email. I have not yet seen an official verification.What about another possibility: Someone of the organisation committee sent Tallbloke a private mail about the Gavin and the science is settled thing and tried to prove his opinion with the cited part of the mail. In order to hide this takobllle was made afterwards to a member of the organisation committee. Reply this thread
Maris | 7/24/2012 8:22:35 AM
I thank God for that boldness for you to open up to your husband, please take another bold step to reconcile that child with her real father so that your repentance can be complete even if you still want to be in cuistody of that child because i totally agree with Mrs. Adamu's contribution.
Thank God for your conscience and God will see you through the end and you will never miss heaven in Jesus name, amen. Reply this thread