According to what Vanguard newspaper reported, for 36 year-old Mrs Mercy Nnamdi, the woman whose one-year-old son was allegedly killed by her husband recently in Ago, Okota area of Lagos, over her husband’s allegation that she was sleeping with his father, life could never have been more cruel. This is because never in her wildest imagination had she envisaged that a man she had known almost all her life could mete such inhuman treatment on her. As you read this piece, Mercy is going through excruciating pains in a private hospital in Okota where doctors are battling to save her life. In fact, the once bubbling woman looks a shadow of herself, as medical report showed that she sustained a third degree burns from the hot iron her husband of two years used on her on Saturday, April 7 2012, which was exclusively reported by Vanguard. Presently, the badly burnt woman maintains a particular position, by sleeping on her back. She wears an adult pampers when she eases herself, with a tissue paper by her side, with which she cleans the fluid coming out from the burns. Help, as gathered, was far from the Imo state-born woman, as none of her neighbours attempted to go and find out what was happening when she was desperately shouting for help. It was learnt that their neighbours failed to respond to her cries for help because it has become a daily occurrence. Crime Guard gathered also that on several occasions, some of the neighbours invited policemen from Ago division who cautioned her husband after which he was made to sign an undertaking never to raise his hands on his wife. Family sources hinted that signs of danger in the marriage reared its ugly face early after the two love birds fell in love 16 years ago, when Mary was barely 22 years old. But she was apparently blinded by love, hoping that her heartthrob would outgrow his anger someday, which was never to be. Narrating what led to her being a patient in the hospital, Mary stated, “It all happened on a Saturday. I had prepared boiled yam, awaiting the arrival of my husband. After a long wait, I decided to eat mine and left his on the table. He came back few minutes to 11pm and went straight to bed. Then at about 1 a.m., power was restored and he went to put off the power generating set and switched over to electricity. After that, he started ironing his customers’ clothes because he is a dry cleaner. I was later woken up by the cry of our one-year-old baby who apparently needed breast milk. All the while, we were outside before power was restored. Before retiring inside, I took my bath and fetched water for him to have his. I was fast asleep when I was woken up by a sharp pain on my back. I thought it was a night mare. But when I opened my eyes, lo and behold, my husband was planting the hot iron he was using on the clothes on me. Immediately I turned, he planted it on my chest. When I raised my hand to prevent it, he planted it on one of my hands . By then I did not know what to do. I started screaming and calling on my neighbours for help. I raised my leg to prevent him, again, he landed the hot iron on me. As he planted the hot iron hard on my flesh, he would use a screw driver to peel off the flesh. At a point, I became too weak to shout. I begged him to stop but he would not. Rather, he would ask me to tell him how many times his father slept with me. Even in pains, I begged him to listen to himself and imagine what he was saying. My response seemed to anger him the more because he would plant it harder, leaving it on my skin and at the same time, asked me to tell him the truth.” At this point, Crime Guard asked if she was guilty of the claim. She grimaced and replied, “How can that be? The father already has a wife.” Pausing for a while and staring at the ceiling, a position she has been maintaining for several hours, she continued, “ at that point, my baby woke up and started crying. I begged him to allow me breast feed the baby. But before I could finish the statement, he placed the hot iron on my breasts, threatening to kill me if I shout. As he lifted the iron, I saw that the flesh from my breast had stuck to the iron surface. Again he pressed it harder on my stomach, leaving it there. I managed to turn, only for the iron to land on my lap. He told me there was no way of escape for me that night, that members of his gang were outside to take my corpse to an unknown destination by the time he finished with me. At that point, I knew the end had come for me. I managed to shout out for help with all the strength in me but I could not. At that point, he forcefully took Ebuka from the bed and went outside. I decided to go out because I did not know what he would do next when he came back. I cannot tell how I crawled out of the room. But I found myself in the kitchen naked, from where two men who saw me gave new rapper to cover myself. “As I was there, trying to fathom how I would escape from the compound, somebody shouted that my husband had killed my child. That was the last thing I heard. I guessed I passed out because I later opened my eyes and found myself in the hospital.” Residents of Number 3, Lambe street, Ago confirmed to Crime Guard that they simply refused to go to Mary’s rescue that night because it was late and also that her shout for help had been one too many. One of them said, “ Since they started living as husband and wife, there had never been a time we did not experience shout or crisis from their one-room apartment. It is worse any time the man came home drunk. We have even gone to report to the police when it became too much because we did not want a situation where he would kill her one day and we would be held responsible. Even at that, he did not stop. “Several times, the woman had wanted to go back to her family but she wouldn’t. Even her father-in-law had advised her to leave when she travelled home last December because he was tired of the endless reports of his son battering his daughter in-law.” Weeping, after pausing for a while, Mary recalled how he met her 37-year-old husband. “We knew each other since 1996. The relationship blossomed until 2010, when he went for introduction in my village. I left my hair dressing skill and moved in with him with the hope of continuing later.” But that was never to be as she revealed that rather than continuing learning hair dressing, she started selling pap, all in a bid to make ends meet and apparently as a demonstration of her love for Henry. “He started showing his real colour later. He started by refusing to drop money for house keep and even when I begged him to rent a shop for me, he didn’t. Rather, he used the money to drink beer and smoke. When I advised him against his drinking and smoking habit, he would flare up and the next thing would be to hit me. Several times I have begged the police to help me beg him not to raise his hands on me but he wouldn’t”Another predicament befalls Mary Sadly, the anguished woman is faced with another predicament which is her inability to pay her medical bills. Already, Crime Guard gathered that her bill had amounted to N200,000. Following this development, the hospital is threatening to stop treatment. Presently, the dressing of the burns which ought to be done on daily basis has been extended to once in two or three days, as a daily dressing cost s N10,000. Sobbing uncontrollably and at the same time questioning her choice of partner, she revealed that her family members had not shown up since the incident occurred, as none of them, according to her, was aware of the incident. “My mother must not hear of this because it will kill her. She is presently taking care of my sister who just put to bed in Owerri. I can not reach my relatives either because my phone is not with me and I do not have their phone numbers off hand.” Crime Guard learnt that since the incident took place, her father in-law had been responsible for the hospital bills. But there is little Pa Nnamdi could do as the bill, as gathered, had gone beyond his capacity. Hospital sources disclosed that though their management had tried to attend to Mary’s case, there are indications that it might discharge her if the accrued bill is not cleared. One of the doctors who identified himself simply as Eze explained that “she had a third degree burn and her case may deteriorate if she does not receive adequate care. She even fainted last Tuesday because she was not given food and her people lacked the fund to bring her back to normal state.” He further disclosed that Mary was rushed to the hospital in a state of coma, adding that, “The husband used pliers on her skin and decimated her. Then a hot iron was applied on her face, body chest, and her two breasts. Meanwhile, she has not been informed of the demise of her one-year-old son considering her present state.” However, the alleged perpetrator of this dastardly act, Mr Henry Nnamdi who was arrested by neighbours, is currently at the State Criminal Investigation Department, Panti, Yaba. Efforts to speak with him proved abortive. Please, ensure you use the social media sharing below this page to spread this to your family and friends. Culled from Vanguard Newspaper
Scene of incident, 3, Lambe Street, Ago-Okota, Lagos
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The Enforcer | 4/21/2012 4:21:57 AMChai, I read this story yesterday on LIB and felt really emotional without seeing pictures of injuries inflicted on the woman but now, I am totally devasted seeing the state of this poor woman. I can't understand what would push a man to harm his wife this way. I am praying God to heal this lady, wommen are to be treasured and loved (disregarding their mouth), not to be abused like this. Reply this thread
Chomy | 4/21/2012 5:35:53 AM |
The man is a beast period!!!Probably,he wanted 2 use her 4 money rituals but it failed!,being frustrated,he resorted 2 this assualt. Mr.Evil agenda dats i call him!!!he should never be left punished!!! Chomy | 4/21/2012 6:11:44 AM |
I mean 2 say'dats what i call him!'
Lizzy J | 4/23/2012 3:09:06 AM |
A woman can say things about her husband to make her actions justified. because people always tend to believe men are the bad once. i know what extend a woman can go to get a man and same goes for when you want to destroy a man. I can see only the man has been blamed here. If you read the story you all can see it is one sided. A man using iron on is wife is unjustified, so am not condoning it. but have you all thought about the mental trauma the man is going through. if you skin is burn or for you to go mentally derange which will you choose. the trauma of the man thinking their son might be for his father. Am a woman and i am very feminist. but think about all this things vitally. how many of us can survive mental derangement if your mother/father was sleeping with your husband/wife. fancy | 4/23/2012 5:53:54 AM |
Lizzy,isn't it also heartless of you to say dis?wonldn't it be better if he sends her away for infidelity instead of wat he did?it means you are also as heartless as him.
cece | 4/23/2012 7:24:30 AM |
@lizzy, i think you need to check your brain. i pray it doesn't happen to you of your sisters. how can you say all these things about a woman & not just a woman a fellow human like you. How can a man do that to a fellow human, that is a beast in human skin. no matter what,he has no right to do sure. ok what about the innocent child he killed, i'm sure you like that too. you better be careful the way you talk. i pray you don't experience such & your female family members. next time if you dn't know what to say just shut your mouth so that God won't send down the fire of the holy ghost on you. i pray she recovers from it In Jesus name.....Amen Mercy | 10/18/2012 3:02:45 AM |
Lizzy or wat r u calld? Cn u listen 2urslf speak? So evn in dis poor woman's predicament u stil hv d impede,i mean d enfrontry 2suport such wickd n devilish act? U must b wickd n hrtles as d devil himslf.d man shld hv divorced ha,b4 u strt layin blames put urslf in ha shoes,hw wil u feel? Wont u feel 4sakn n chose death? Jst pray she recuperates odawise u'l b judged 4dis ill-statemnt.nxt tym if u hv nth 2say,u hide ur s****dity by shuttn up or beta stil learn it. N pray it neva happn 2ur pple.n dnt 4get 'd same cup u use 2serve pple wil stil b d same cup dey'l use 2serve u too' its means alot.
Gloria | 4/23/2012 9:17:16 AM |
Lizzy, i see u must be one of the sick people who think that harming another person is right. No matter her crime. If she was sleeping with another man doesn't give him the right to hurt her. they both agreed to be married so he doesn't have the right to do evil to her. Afterall, he wasn't there when she was conceived by her parents. But for the grace of God, the authorities should resort to 'teeth for tart.' to hell with men who think that because they are married to a woman then she's his property? let the authorities burn him so he sees how sweet it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then those c***y ones that behave badly will learn a lesson. 'PERIOD' John | 9/23/2012 6:37:01 PM |
F*** u. Wasn't she hurting him when she was cheating on him?
Tyrece Armstrong | 4/23/2012 10:05:15 AM |
You are thinking irrational. This man has no right to do what he did. Being angry and traumatized shouldn't be used to classify why he did what he did. He's a demon and as such he should be treated like one. Hanged and punished. I'm truly disappointed in knowing that nothing is being heard by the police about the accused man from this case. If whether he will go to Jail or will be hanged. His case should not be delayed but rather will dealt with ASAP. (God on the other hand should've intervened, and for that I'm also disappointed). Nnamdi Umahi | 5/2/2012 2:21:43 PM |
How dare u say u r disappointed at God??mind ur tongue lest u attract His wrath
Ky | 4/26/2012 12:12:37 AM |
I dont care if she did sleep with his father, It takes a sick person to harm a child or another Human being.There is no way you can try and make sence of this. This is sick in the head, and need to be locked away. He Mutilated his wife and killed a child. This was a sick act. God gave us free will, meaning choices. This man could have left this woman, and found someone else. If you read the article, it speaks of a history of violence. This man had a Problem, insecurities, No self-control, I wish she would have left a long time ago. I'm sure this man had shown some signs of anger prior to marriage. Famous quote "When people show you who they are, believe them." - Maya Angelou It seems simple, yes? Judge people by their behavior. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Simple. A man occasionally gets drunk and smacks his wife around, but is otherwise a "decent guy." The most likely cause? He's a wife-beater. But his wife won't believe that - she'll make excuses. Don't let this be you, on either side!! pay attention to what people show you, the truth always comes out at some point in time. This man need to be away from anything living!!! He has no sympathy here!!You should be embarrassed for saying the trauma of the man thinking their son might be for his father. Im sorry Lizzy J,but you're wrong. No Human has the Right to harm another!! The most hight said vengeance is his. This man is sick!!! Ky
HONESTY | 4/26/2012 12:31:41 PM |
Lizzy you dumb b***h! nothing justifies the fact this man burned his wife. I don't give a f**k if she did cheat on him with his father. That is sick! He does not own her. So why does he feel the need to do inhumane acts to her ESPECIALLY while she is asleep. AND this ass hole MURDERED a one year old. NOTHING IS JUSTIFIED!!! HE killed the child for what reason?!!! ohh okay! get the f**k outta here with that BS!
Zara-shola | 4/26/2012 6:26:18 PM |
You are very s****d! How can you talk so much r*****h. What do you mean the 'mans mental trauma'? His evil act was fueled by alcohol and he is obviously not sane in any way to have done that to another human being, man or woman PERIOD! Do you even know what a Feminist is you jackass!! Go and get your dictionary illiterate f**l. This issue has nothing to do with Gender. If somebody burnt your skin would you be thinking about their mental trauma? You need to be in a Mental institution to get your head examined just like the evil b*****d that did this to the poor young lady. She will now suffer forever.May God Be With Her.
anonymous | 5/24/2012 10:54:37 AM |
YOU ARE A BIG ALL TIME STEWPID ANNOYING f*****h INHUMAN PERSONALITY FOR SAYING ALL THIS BULLs**t YOU REALLY SUCK AND YOU ARE SUCH AN ASSHOLE........
Chuks | 4/23/2012 6:33:55 AM |
The man is really a full he never loves is wife, really he wanted to use her to make money, God would help that woman.
Mrs Akudo | 4/21/2012 6:20:05 AM |
I cldnt finish d story coz I was crying.GOD take control! hapiiiiiiii | 4/21/2012 8:03:05 AM |
dat undertaking is r*****h,dat hot iron he used in his wife shud b used on him together wit grinded pepper n salt....so dat he can also feel d pain his wife is going thru right nw.....idoit
lolo | 4/21/2012 10:55:33 AM |
where is Mr Akudo let him console you o we don't want anything that will make you cry o Mrs Akudo | 4/21/2012 1:05:11 PM |
Lolostic d Lolostica! how re u 2day? where u shook head since? why u leave us 4nfc just like dat without permission? anyroads,welcome!
Uc | 4/21/2012 8:56:19 AM |
Hello everyone, My heart bleeds for this woman & my spirit is asking me to help her. My family is eager to get in touch with her as well & send her some support (spiritually, financially & in every other aspect possible). Please if any of you have this woman's information or information of her family member(s), post it on here. You can also email it to me directly to elegantbelle@hotmail.com Sincerely, Uc PS: Let's join hands & put an end to domestic violence, abuse, assault & injustice on women/girls! Let's join hands & make our society better & safer for all not for some, God bless! Lalaland | 4/21/2012 9:40:37 AM |
This is what I have been talking about how Nigerian women allow their men to oppress them due to "culture" and the ignorant attitude of being unhappily married...they will rotten and crying in their so called marriage why the men are going about fhucking and maltreating them by not being the husband they are meant to be!!! Ehhhh you Nigerian women you people have to be stronger and intelligent to be able to stand on your own o! Don't allow Nigerian men to use and abuse you cos of your STEWPIDITY!! Real Pinapple take note! Don't encourage women to take back their useless husbands oooo!!! oly | 4/21/2012 9:55:42 AM |
supported!its high time women had voices in nigeria!
The Enforcer | 4/21/2012 9:56:47 AM |
Can't even look at the picture without feeling emotional. Nija women, wake up pleaaaaaaase and stand up for yourselves. Haba, marriage should be about coming together to become one. God forgive me, but I no think say I go allow one ediot do this to my daughter and get away with it. Anyway sha, my daughter is to become a nun rather than marry a man wey go abuse am. Uc, you fit contact the hospital wey this woman dey to find out details of how to help. Let us know. real pinapple | 4/21/2012 10:09:29 AM |
Enforcer hahahaha na ur daughter choice to become nun abi na u go force her become nun, you know say na olden days catholic parents de carry the nun thing for head so as to bear nne father and nne sister so no be now again. The Enforcer | 4/21/2012 10:20:53 AM |
If that is the safest option to keep those you love safe these days so be it, rather than allow one yeye man come damage my pikin.
anna | 4/21/2012 10:10:06 AM |
Enforcer luv calm down o. The Enforcer | 4/21/2012 10:27:10 AM |
My girl, ebi like say make I just grab that mumu husband and yank his head off his shoulder with my bare hands, chai i don vex well well.
Lalaland | 4/21/2012 10:10:46 AM |
Exactly!! I agree with you having your daughter as a nun than marrying a bully for a husband!! I wonder how many nigerian women are still going through torture in their so called "marriage"! They would rather be unhappily married than be HAPPILY divorced!! Me I like the western style of marriage sha! Most Nigerian men take the fhucking piss with their wives and the wives think it is acceptable!!! Tututufiaaakwaaaaa!!! I don't wanna marry a dumb stewpid woman!!
real pinapple | 4/21/2012 10:05:26 AM |
Lala it is well my person, buh what you have to know is that women abuse is every where in the world not only in nigeria, and i will never advice any woman to continue living with a man that molest her all the time and a drunkard, i fear wife beater and drunkard pass anything, you cannot predict what they will come up with when they are angry and when they go out drinking. I felt for this woman sha, i guess na too much love wey she get for the man know let her hear when her father inlaw de tell her to leave his son,that man has a problem and addiction which will be taken care by nigerian police by the time de finish dealing with him in the cell. Nfc please i will be glad if you guys can reach the hospital or we open a seperate account in her name, cos am willing to donate something we cannot allow her to be in pains. Lala i no go advice any woman to endure wife beater nwanne make person no go die untimely death for man hand Lalaland | 4/21/2012 10:59:36 AM |
Yes o pinapple it is well! Me I do not believe these people know the meaning of love o! This ain't love more like STEWPIDITY!!! I hope the woman will be ok cos this man has completely ruined her life!! She will not be able to have proper medical care for her injuries to heal well. Kai! I feel sorry for her well well!! Chei!
chioma - NY | 4/21/2012 11:07:27 AM |
Ehhhhh, at last you are being realistic, more grease to your thinking. king, from germany | 4/21/2012 10:25:19 PM |
It is really schocking to see that a man can inflict such gastardly injuries on his wife, but when everybody is castigating the man, we should also look at the other side of the coin, for a man to inflict such injuries on his wife, the wife must have done an unforgiving thing, if really that the woman is sleeping with her husband father, then she deserve what she got, but the useless man should not have gone to the extent of killing there own son, the man must languish in prison, this is a warning to people that we should look before jumping into marriage. Lalaland | 4/22/2012 6:03:24 AM |
Your write up shows the kind of disgusting and WICKED mind you have!!! No right minded human being should do that to another human being!!! No matter what the wife did, still DOES NOT warrant this HORRID torture!!! Nneoma | 4/23/2012 3:21:19 AM |
U ve got a very wicked & bad thinking, for ur info my dear, no amount of sin committed by the woman shld warrant a bodily harm not to talk of such an inhuman torture. Even if d husband had caught her pants down with another man, d least he can do is to send her packing. Wat abt d man who has bn killing himself wit drinking & smoking, am sure he will even keep a prostitwte somwhere where he calms his nerves. Women are always at d receiving end i suppose???... Mtchewwwww!!!.
Nneoma | 4/23/2012 3:09:17 AM |
I quite agree with u, drunkard & wife beaters are d most dangerous set of men on earth. I wish d woman had listened to d handwriting on d wall and fled wit her dear life & body intact. At times i also agree wit Lala, women shld acknowledge their value in life by not allowing any man to take them 4 granted. Imagine ruining d precious life of this woman!!. Anyways, d deed has been done, d management of d hospital shld pls continue with d treatment and open an account so dat we can donate our widows mite. To d Nigerian Police, please dat man shld be thrown into a burning empty drum so that he can experience d kind of excruciating pains he subjected d woman into. To Women all over d world, Pls marriage is not a do or die affair. Do not suffer & smile in a loveless marriage. If a man does not value & appreciate u, pls VALUE & APPRECIATE URSELF by walking away happily wit ur whole body & self intact. Women deserve to be treated honourably & respectfully.
O"h | 4/21/2012 12:58:43 PM |
I am also interested in the contact information. MARIONA | 4/22/2012 11:07:20 PM |
The article gave the address of the woman/victim.UC and O"h , you guys cud send a reliable person to the address to get info on how the victim cld be reached.U cud also find out from NFC or Linda Ikeji´s blog.I guess Linda cld be called directly and she will gladly scout for the victim´s contact/ find out how she could be helped.
Lizzy J | 4/23/2012 3:06:10 AM |
A woman can say things about her husband to make her actions justified. because people always tend to believe men are the bad once. i know what extend a woman can go to get a man and same goes for when you want to destroy a man. I can see only the man has been blamed here. If you read the story you all can see it is one sided. A man using iron on is wife is unjustified, so am not condoning it. but have you all thought about the mental trauma the man is going through. if you skin is burn or for you to go mentally derange which will you choose. the trauma of the man thinking their son might be for his father. Am a woman and i am very feminist. but think about all this things vitally. how many of us can survive mental derangement if your mother/father was sleeping with your husband/wife. Taiwo Idowu NY | 4/23/2012 7:57:32 AM |
How could you say some bulls**t like that?.You are a woman and you talk like this?.This woman got batterd by the socall husband with a deadly weapon and you think she should be blame too.?No matter what this woman did,she does not deserve this kind of treatment from anybody.Man,woman,or children. What if this is your sister,mother daughter or any female member of your family,are you going to to talk your crap?.Did you see all the burn on that woman?.The poor lady might be in pain for the rest of her life.This heartless man not only maimed the woman,he also killed the young son.Over what?.He could have sent her packing instead of this jungle justice.This man should be put away for a long time and if the woman dies,he should get the death penalty.This is not the first time i read about Nigeria men maiming their woman they are suppose to love.Remember the Deeji of Akure with the Acid on his Late wife?.Anyway,if there is any way to help for monetary donation,Pls call me at 347-538-7702.(Donations only).
kay | 4/24/2012 11:08:07 AM |
looks like you didn't go to school for you to come up with something so s****d am sorry that woman was not you and the child was ur and then you would see what it feels like s l u t go back to school to bad am all the way in GRENADA cause if i was close to you i would beat ur ass till u learn some sense.
Nana africa | 2/15/2013 8:54:12 PM |
I love my wife nd never cheat her, if she cheat me she can as well kill me, i will nt hurt her to this extent,but i wil let my niegbours relatives know her cheating and put her away disgracefully.
Enyi | 5/5/2012 3:38:56 PM |
Mrs mary,take heart God will fight 4 you.the husband should be batardly beaten by the police please
complicated | 4/21/2012 4:32:58 AMWhat a cruel and dangerous world we live in.How can a human beign do this kind of artrocity.Its unimaginable.Devil have really eating deep into the brains of human beigns.My heart goes with u and I pray that meaningful Nigerians will respond to ur hospital bills.may God help u to recover.Deeply sorry. Reply this thread
nky | 4/21/2012 5:28:26 AM |
Ehyaaa,d man is a bloody b*****d..hw a man did dis to his wife, chai dis wat some women go through in d name of marriage...i pity dis young woman o
Debra | 4/21/2012 4:36:04 AMDis man needs to be jaild and the keys thrown to d ocean,wat is dis.god help women Reply this thread
Maramma | 4/21/2012 5:16:23 AMPeeps, pls help ds woman anyway we can... Fashola, all d big boys and girls in Lagos.. Pls have a hrt and help ds woman, she is really in pains,, Reply this thread
zum | 4/21/2012 5:18:40 AMIts really appauling that somebody can do this.Women should try to know when a man poses danger on them and leave.This man has been raining abuses on her in the past,and she continued to stay in the name of marriage.If u value and respect ur body ,u should quit at a slightest trait ,its not the end of life.Many women all over the world have died silently like these without communicating to any body of their night meres.There is no more love the moment a man lay his hand on his wife.Its a sacrilage that is unacceptable.This is an eye opener to all the women who are out there dying in silence.Run fo ur lives and tell people ur plight.Most of them are animals. Reply this thread
lizzy | 4/21/2012 5:20:46 AMthe world would have been peaceful without men Reply this thread
rossy | 4/21/2012 5:21:03 AMThis man need to be hanged cos what he did is offesive and aginst the law...God forbid. Reply this thread
Patieminaj | 4/21/2012 5:37:37 AMI read dis story on facebuk dis a.m & tears filled my tears..knt believe sm1 can b soo wicked 2 do dis 2 his own wife...this world is gettin more evil daily...God forbid...i tink dat man shld b burnt on a charcoal stand lyk barbeque so he'l knw how it feels, devil's incarnate. Reply this thread
ganger | 4/21/2012 5:53:45 AMd same okota 2 months back we read about a woman killed her hubby wit pistel ...cheii this is inhumane...sotey he killed his own son ..the man deserve life imprisonment cos he is not gud for d society Reply this thread
Learner | 4/21/2012 6:07:17 AMThis is known as Great Bodily Harm(GBH) Can he withstand it if a heartless man like him is hired to do same on his body?Can we see the Picture of the man Pls?This Okota is notorious as trhis is the second of heartlessness recently.If a marriage is not working why stick in there hoping for change?If she had heeded to advice and left the devil husband she would have been in good health looking after the son who may tomorrow be a doctor and give her pride and joy PEACE for the rest of her life. Reply this thread
Regret | 4/21/2012 6:19:41 AMA Zebra can never change its colours till end of the World.This man has this act of Violence why go ahead and marry thinking he will change?What has been will continue to be as in marriage.Let trhe women learn very well from this if a husband become a drunkard or start beating the wife its time to leave that man otherwise the end rsult will be everlasting sorrow or deformity like above.Now the only comforter(son) for the woman has been killed.Lets see the Picture of the Man pls? Reply this thread
Keith | 4/21/2012 6:25:11 AMThis is somebody daughter for God sake.If a man do this to my sister I will just straight away amputate his two hands before anything at all.Just look at human body?After few years now he will walk about free man?He should rot in jail forever and ever Amen. Reply this thread
Keith | 4/21/2012 6:36:34 AM |
I do agree with you there is really no point letting this man stay alive. I pray for this woman to survive
Kay | 4/21/2012 6:32:35 AMOur society supports bad marriage and suggest to men that they can kill their wifes if they want, when they want and how they want. Every one in this forum is now calling for the mans head because the womans life is in danger, but if the woman had divorced the man when she started receiving the beating our society will see her as a p********e who wants to go after men. Even the neighbours could not help because the beating was a daily occurence. Whatever happened to send the woman packing to her parents house? Please someone should check this mans head. Reply this thread
Watcher | 4/21/2012 11:57:40 AM |
What you've just said is very true. This is one of the many reasons why people should never be pressured into getting married. Sometimes in the real world and on this website, you see people calling single ladies like Genevieve Nnaji, Uche Jombo e.t.c foul names just because they aren't married yet but the above story has proven once again that its not only about getting married or the length of time one is married but how happy the individuals concerned are. Marriage is a beautiful thing that can only be enjoyed to the fullest when the people involved are right for each other. For this abuse to get to this level shows that this woman has been repeatedly battered in the past but could not leave her abuser in a society that frowns against divorce especially if it was sought for by a woman. If the lady had left or divorced her husband for being abusive and had written an article on the advantages of leaving an abusive husband, you would definitely have read comments from people that would call her all sorts of names and would also preach to her to go back to her husband and make peace. Its mind boggling and sad that one would stay in a relationship that would lead them to the above situation. My heart goes out to the lady and I sincerely hope that her family members would carry out their own "justice". Marriage is not and should never be a do or die affair. MARIONA | 4/22/2012 11:10:29 PM |
Na pastors I dey blame pass for bad counselling when a couple with abusive relationship goes to them.Kay, u are very right.This woman shud have long left...
NK | 4/21/2012 6:34:42 AMTHIS IS WICKEDNESS FROM THE HIGH PLACES, THE MAN IS AN OCULIST NO DOUBT. HOW CAN A MAN BORN OF A WOMAN BE SO HEARTLESS TO HIS OWN WIFE AND TO A POOR BABY? THIS MAN DESERVE MORE THAN JUST BEHIND THE BAR, HE SHOULD FACE THE LAW. THIS IS BARBARIC. I PRAY THAT GOD WILL USE SO MANY PEOPLE TO HELP THIS WOMAN INCLUDING ME. GOD HAVE MERCY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Reply this thread
ABBEY GHANA | 4/21/2012 6:54:28 AMPLS IS THERE ANYWAY WE CAN CONTRIBUTE TO HELP THIS WOMAN NOT TO DIE,THIS PAIN IS TOO MUCH FOR HER,I CAN IMAGING THE PAINS SOMETIME WE EXPERIENCE IF WE MISTAKENLY TOUCH AN HOT OBJECT,HOW MUCH MORE FOR SOMEBODY TO PEEL A FELLOW HUMAN BODY WITH HOT IRON AND PLIER.INFACT THE PAINS IS UNIMAGINABLE.GOD PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS IN YOUR INFINITY MERCIES KEEP THIS WOMAN ALIVE.IF ANYONE KNOWS HOW WE CAN REACH THIS WOMAN AND CONTRIBUTE FOR HER TREATMENT.AM ALSO USING THIS MEDIUM TO PLEAD TO ANYONE THAT CAN AFFORD SOMETHING TO LET US HELP THIS POOR WOMAN.GOD HELP YOU ALL Reply this thread
Oluchi | 4/21/2012 7:00:07 AMWhat s mean of dis? Eh if two of dem can not live why not send back d women to s famliy alive den dis, God help us we women,i pray life onto her in Jesus name Amen Reply this thread
meyo | 4/21/2012 7:20:34 AMpls nfc, am fillin her pains. how can one contribute to pay th bill. am concern Reply this thread
helen | 4/21/2012 8:01:50 AMJail is not the solution. AN EYE FOR AN EYE! The beast should be burnt with an iron, and then left to suffer without any medical attention. Reply this thread
Banga | 4/21/2012 8:25:51 AMONLY ABBEY GHANA HAS REALLY HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD ALL THE WAY FROM GHANA.LETS LEAVE CURSES AND PITY ASIDE FOR NOW LETS START THE PITY IN ACTION(MONEY)SEEING IS BELIEVING AND WE HAVE SEEN THE ABOVE PICTURE.THIS WOMAN IS IN PAINS!PAINS!!PAINS!!!LETS START SENDING DONATIONS in CASH FOR HER TREATMENTS NOW PLS???HOWEVER LITTLE IMMEDIATELY. Reply this thread
Mary | 4/21/2012 8:29:41 AMWe are ready to donate in our compound and street but where do we send our donations pls?My colleagues at work are ready.Can we see the picture of the HEARTLESS man pls? Reply this thread
Engaged | 4/21/2012 8:49:10 AMthis is not totally acceptable the man must be punished to the full extent allowed by the law. To do this to a woman and an innocent child is hell on earth. Nigeria this is hell of earth Reply this thread
Aguntasolo | 4/21/2012 9:11:27 AMWhy not make it eye for an eye whereby we get a HEARTLESS man like him to give him the taste of same treatment?He can really feel the pains inflicted on this woman by experiencing it himself only then he will truely feel what he has done.What about innoscent boy killed?Take that baby life just like that? Lets see the man picture pls. Reply this thread
c man | 4/21/2012 9:12:46 AMplease can someone help us with the name of the hospital , we would like to help!!! Reply this thread
c man | 4/21/2012 9:13:05 AMplease can someone help us with the name of the hospital , we would like to help!!! Reply this thread
c man | 4/21/2012 9:17:49 AMplease can someone help us with the name of the hospital , we would like to help!!! Reply this thread
Maggy | 4/21/2012 9:45:34 AMPls to where do I send my donation pls?This is time for action not story. Reply this thread
Anon | 4/21/2012 9:54:11 AMWat is dis? Pls NFC u lot should b fast in gettn an account or d hospital Where d lady is so dat people can give Deir widow's mite.. Is c***y.. D Henry of a guy is psychotic.. Unimaginable, hw wicked d heart of men is Human beings amaze me sumtymes.. D person u sleep wiv every night and Anytime u feel like it.. My tots r wiv Mary, I can only imagine d pains.. LOVE Can b dangerous. Poor lady wiv all dese pains she still is griefn ova d deaf Of her son.. Words can't describe wat dat Henry is.. A beast.. He nids to b Buried alive!!! Reply this thread
BAMGBOSE | 4/21/2012 10:09:12 AMReally I cannot imagine myself in this lady presen state or condition. Mere Looking at the picture nearly stop me from breathing not to talk of the pains.AM READY WITH MY DONATION NOW NOW PLS,TO WHERE ? Reply this thread
Carolyn | 4/21/2012 10:12:41 AMIs lyk dis man is unda a spel, how can a man do a tin lyk dis? Bt my advice 4 we ladies is dat we shud luk b4 we leap, Reply this thread
Debs | 4/21/2012 11:09:47 AMMadness! Wah da hell?????? Wuz talking bout jail! Haaaaa! Dis is high class wickedness! Chai! Dis man! Hei! Pple r inhumane! He deserves to die!!!! 2 rot in hell! Yes! He does! May God show mercy on ur wicked soul! Wicked man Reply this thread
AKWARAIKE | 4/21/2012 11:10:09 AMWHO KNOWS THE WOMAN COULD BE SLEEPING WITH THE FATHER INLAW BECAUSE WOMEN THESE DAYS ARE BEAST AND w***eS IN PRETENSE ! Reply this thread
Concerned human being. | 4/23/2012 9:28:12 AM |
it is people like u dat should be burned so u know how it feels. men and women cheat but that doesnt give the other party the right to harm or kill the other party. afterall, u were not born together. there are many decent men and women out there if one doesnt work? try another.if u are not lucky with relationships, then stay single. no one said everyone must get married.
Mystic | 4/21/2012 11:11:21 AMNuh peace fi a dem wicked.................wicked generation............murder dem wrote Reply this thread
Fola | 4/21/2012 11:11:42 AMThe wicked and heartless man must nt go unpunished,at least he must be sentenced 4 thirty years.may d almighty ALLAH heal d woman Reply this thread
Fola | 4/21/2012 11:11:57 AMThe wicked and heartless man must nt go unpunished,at least he must be sentenced 4 thirty years.may d almighty ALLAH heal d woman Reply this thread
Adanne | 4/21/2012 11:13:11 AMI cant believe what I've just read, my whole body is cringing right now. I hope that man is going to get the right justice he deserves, and how do we send money to this woman who needs our help! She deserves to live to tell her story to women and even men who are going through domestic violence to get out of that marriage or relationship. If he/she starts showing signs of violence to the point he threatens your life in anyway verbally or physically, please leave or else you may not live to tell your own story. A word is enough for the wise!!!. Reply this thread
moyano | 4/21/2012 11:14:58 AMThough it could b so painful too if a father is sleeping with your wife in ur absence, d man would have wisely used other approach to salvage the situation. Men b wise in decisions Reply this thread
Onome-Dublin Ireland | 4/21/2012 12:56:11 PM |
Is high time our society should congently condemned and stand against domestic violence.This is not the first story and photograph l have seen. On how men abused,assault, disfigured and eventually killed their wives. Not too long ago, a story was put up here. Last year,on how a man named( mr kolade) mutilated his banker wife's body.There is an another incident that was shown on hinolly tv, brought by Project Alert, how a husband disfigured his wife by throwing a stove burning with flames on his wife which caused her a 3 degree burnt. The list is endless, these are the few l can vividly recollect.Is really time to say "NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE" As for the "zombie" that caused this woman this pains shouldn,t be allowed to walk on the surface of this earth.Is time for "tit for tat".Tthe beast even killed his own son.What a awful world we live in. This is not a case of alcohol addiction rather a frustrated retarded ape in human skin,gosh! he should be shown the way to hell that where he likes belong.Rot in hell!!!!!!!! please, l would want to donate something reasonable.NFC, please get the woman contact or hospital cotact.l will appreciate!!
Josie | 4/21/2012 11:15:40 AMI pray our Lord Jesus Christ 2 help her recover n also pray dat such a wicked man shuldn't come my way talk less of marryin him.AMEN N AMEN. Reply this thread
chioke | 4/21/2012 11:19:43 AMDis man is heartless, i blame the lady, bcos he would hav been displaying his character before both of u decide to live togather. what u cannot take in a relationship don't thick u can change it in marriage. Reply this thread
chylove | 4/21/2012 11:30:08 AMIt,s unfortunate that a whole lot of women feel that staying with a man is a do or die affair. Reply this thread
Sunshine | 4/21/2012 11:51:18 AMHonestly, i don't really know what to say right now. I'm in shock!! What is this world turning into for God sake? God please, help this woman to recover fast from this pains.I will like to be part of the donation I'm concern please, where do I send it to? Reply this thread
Mamaswagger | 4/21/2012 12:01:37 PMThat son of the devil does not deserve to live for a second, He must pay dearly for his crime physical and spiritually. I pray that she get help as fast as possible in jesus name Amen. Reply this thread
Glo | 4/21/2012 12:36:22 PMInstead of me to leave my papas house and live in that death trap with a beast as husband id rather hang in my mothers house. Shuu we marry problem we no marry problem. Na wetin ? If e sleep wit ur papa e kill am shuuuuuu ? Uzuuooo Reply this thread
Glo | 4/21/2012 12:41:40 PMAnd if she is sleeping with her father in law what has it got to do with killing their litttle kid? What has the child done apart from being brot into the world by two lousy adults? Reply this thread
Good leader | 4/21/2012 1:13:44 PMI want to help her.How do i do it? I can give her some money to help with the hospital bills. You can contact me on willisure@yahoo.com Reply this thread
Ezinne | 4/21/2012 3:42:59 PMMen are the worst animal . Please NIgerian govt. Take note, if that woman happen to die that i***t should be killed. May be he has found anther i***tic lady outside . This is Hight of wickedness, God will punish you, you will die a shameful death i***t. Reply this thread
Jman | 4/21/2012 3:45:14 PMHaaa i will prefer a judgement whereby using d same thing for him till he give up so he will know how painful it is OMG dis murder is so heartless please KILL HIM Reply this thread
me | 4/21/2012 6:44:50 PMthat man deserved to die,ad b tro into the evil forest,hw can he do that to his wife ad also killed the baby na wa oh....if e wan do blood money why e nor go use e papa or mama.....mak dem nor liv d man ohhh bcos this one na death sentance... Reply this thread
ben louis swiss | 4/21/2012 10:18:06 PMif that woman has ever sleep with her real father or had sex with him,,,let her die,,and let our God help her husband to come out soon,,,but if that woman never sleep or had sex with her real father,,,,let that man die soon,,, that is alll i can say for now,,,,,,, Reply this thread
sk | 4/23/2012 3:51:20 AM |
You lot trying to find fault in the woman must be the next in command to the devil.how on earth can you condone such torture if the woman indeed slept with her father inlaw.people like you lots should be traced and jailed with the man and given the same sentence,because if you're in the same situation you lot will do worst things.you deserved to be pnished like the man.nigerians we need to change our ways of reasoning so it can measure up to the rest of the world.that's why we 're still living in abject poverty and the country ots not moving forward.
ben louis swiss | 4/21/2012 10:18:06 PMif that woman has ever sleep with her real father or had sex with him,,,let her die,,and let our God help her husband to come out soon,,,but if that woman never sleep or had sex with her real father,,,,let that man die soon,,, that is alll i can say for now,,,,,,, Reply this thread
ben louis swiss | 4/21/2012 10:18:07 PMif that woman has ever sleep with her real father or had sex with him,,,let her die,,and let our God help her husband to come out soon,,,but if that woman never sleep or had sex with her real father,,,,let that man die soon,,, that is alll i can say for now,,,,,,, Reply this thread
Joshua | 4/21/2012 10:52:47 PMThey have to execute that wicked man. Reply this thread
UZO-NDU | 4/22/2012 12:41:10 AMFirst of all, let me use this opportunity to thnk whom ever that brought this picture to light!! My advice to all nigerians are to exposse everthing that happened arround them, thru filming/pictures etc. Reply this thread
Elam kenya | 4/22/2012 12:58:53 AMI think Life is more important living the meaning of life some times is victory or defeat are In the hands of God so one must Enjoy Life killing Life is not the solution the man could have divorced the woman period or he could set a trap if true then he should have asked his father to come and collect his wife instead of ironing her this way am shocked Reply this thread
ramson kelly | 4/22/2013 7:01:18 PM |
killing is not the solution but he need to be on a painful condition like he put hos wife now so he need to be loike har .i know that by God grace the woman will recover
vicky | 4/22/2012 12:59:38 AMMost men Are heartless.dats one thing in tryn 2 take s**t from a so called husbands all in d name of love. African women stand up to ur rights. If ur marriage is not working out and u know u hv tried ur best to make it work. Leave d prison of a marriage alone dan 2 die in it, or even go thru such pains Reply this thread
Kingston | 4/22/2012 3:08:02 AMI even wonda y de neighbours were lenient enuf 2 hand him ova 2 d police when they shud av simply roasted d wild animal nd fed it 2 d vultures.BBAAsstard! Reply this thread
Reply | 4/22/2012 3:59:55 AMThe world is reading these pls,All eveils has been Associated to NIGERIAN MEN and there are evidences and refferences all over the world.Why?This is Heartlessness in the highest degree.Can the man be pinned down and given same treatment pls?Unless this type of eye for an eye start these men will not think twice.AM ASHAME OF NIGERIAN MEN,ALL EVILS ARE PERPETRATED BY MEN. Reply this thread
He's d beast of our tym | 4/22/2012 4:10:38 AMIf d man is rytli judged,d same thin he did to his wife shud b done to him.shekenah! Reply this thread
Apple | 4/22/2012 6:46:06 AMThe best punishment in my opinion is to use hot iron on this BEAST!! Even if this woman slept with her father inlaw dose she deserve this? what do nigerian women do to the Nigerian men that cheat every second? It will never be well with all you EVIL Nigerian men that traet your women like animals!!!....... Reply this thread
Kike | 4/22/2012 7:37:32 AMWhat a sad story,I feel so sorry for the baby who do not know anything and was killed just like that.he should but burnt too to dead to feel what his wife and son felt.WICKEND i***t Reply this thread
Rigobert | 4/22/2012 8:01:32 AMThat man should be arrested and the same thing should be done to him so that she can feel what she made his wife passing through. No matter where he is,he must be found and be done the same. For the hospital,we must start killing those Doctors and their family if because of money they cannot save lives. Anyone who loses his family member because the hospital refused to treat him for the lack of money must do everything to kill also the children of those in charge in the hospital so that they can feel what it is to lose a family member. As for the Government,no citizen of Nigeria should be denied a treatment in the hospital because they don't have money. There is money that all of them are eating senselessly. One of them is spending more than N800,000 daily. Nigeria government should be ashamed for Nigerian dying because the hospital refuse them treatment. Shame to Nigeria Government Reply this thread
Rigobert | 4/22/2012 8:03:52 AMThat man should be arrested and the same thing should be done to him so that she can feel what she made his wife passing through. No matter where he is,he must be found and be done the same. For the hospital,we must start killing those Doctors and their family if because of money they cannot save lives. Anyone who loses his family member because the hospital refused to treat him for the lack of money must do everything to kill also the children of those in charge in the hospital so that they can feel what it is to lose a family member. As for the Government,no citizen of Nigeria should be denied a treatment in the hospital because they don't have money. There is money that all of them are eating senselessly. One of them is spending more than N800,000 daily. Nigeria government should be ashamed for Nigerian dying because the hospital refuse them treatment. Shame to Nigeria Government Reply this thread
jess | 4/22/2012 10:03:08 AMMay u rot in hell for doin this to not just a human being but ur wife!!! Reply this thread
andy ebuka | 4/22/2012 10:38:25 AMcan some one tell me y i will not kill the man Reply this thread
andy ebuka | 4/22/2012 10:45:19 AMevil man that is wot u are. an u will see wot u have get ur sef in to Reply this thread
Tick | 4/22/2012 1:46:16 PMplease u guys should not also carry me along cuz i won't believe this to be a hot pressing iron, my question start with is this woman sleeping when this is happening?, is she cripple that she can not run for her dear life? to the extent that her private part was almost burnt up,i rather believe you when you call it hot water burn, cuz not every thing you will discuse with a married woman and expect her not to tell her husband! Reply this thread
Tick | 4/22/2012 1:47:20 PMplease u guys should not also carry me along cuz i won't believe this to be a hot pressing iron, my question start with is this woman sleeping when this is happening?, is she cripple that she can not run for her dear life? to the extent that her private part was almost burnt up,i rather believe you when you call it hot water burn, cuz not every thing you will discuse with a married woman and expect her not to tell her husband! Reply this thread
Charisma | 4/23/2012 12:39:35 AM |
Tick, according to d her (mercy d victim) n i quote........ I was FAST ASLEEP when I was woken up by a sharp pain on my back. I thought it was a night mare. But when I opened my eyes, lo and behold, my husband was planting the hot iron he was using on the clothes on me. Immediately I turned, he planted it on my chest. When I raised my hand to prevent it, he planted it on one of my hands .
meyo | 4/22/2012 1:56:39 PMnfc pls let us know the means to help this lady, beause delay could be dangerous Reply this thread
ren | 4/22/2012 3:11:01 PMproblem with the igho man,they all f**k-up Reply this thread
Rev | 4/22/2012 11:17:58 PMSince boko muslims haram kil people with reckless abandom some stiewpid men tinks is dia ryt 2,law shud deal wit dz demon husband,human devil. Reply this thread
omowumi | 4/23/2012 1:29:21 AMwomen is it dat we dnt want to learn or wat.......because i see no reason why u are alwys been battered in a marriage n u still der saying HE WILL CHANGE....tofiapa.....PLS WOMEN WAKE UP AND LETS PUT A STOP TO DIS Reply this thread
Lizzy J | 4/23/2012 3:03:05 AMI can see only the man has been blamed here. If you read the story you all can see it is one sided. A man using iron on is wife is unjustified, so am not condoning it. but have you all thought about the mental trauma the man is going through. if you skin is burn or for you to go mentally derange which will you choose. the trauma of the man thinking their son might be for his father. Am a woman and i am very feminist. but think about all this things vitally. how many of us can survive mental derangement if your mother/father was sleeping with your husband/wife. Reply this thread
NACO | 4/23/2012 5:44:14 AMThe nomatter the provocation, the treatment is unjustified. He only suspected, there was no proven evidence. If that guy was tired of the wife, he should have divorced her in good health and go ahead with the new found wife. If this guy has the opportunity he could do worse, He is a cannibal. No one should blame the devil, the man himself is the devil. Reply this thread
Blessed | 4/23/2012 6:37:44 AMDis man is a beast hw can he use hot iron to bun his wif lk dat. Hes a devils incarnate, Even if d woman in question sleeps wit his fada is dat enuf reason to burn her wit hot iron & killed his son. He just a devil & a f**l by allowing his anger take beta pat of him bcos even bible tell us say anger rest in a heart of a f**l Reply this thread
Blessed | 4/23/2012 6:39:11 AMDis man is a beast hw can he use hot iron to bun his wif lk dat. Hes a devils incarnate, Even if d woman in question sleeps wit his fada is dat enuf reason to burn her wit hot iron & killed his son. He just a devil & a f**l by allowing his anger take beta pat of him bcos even bible tell us say anger rest in a heart of a f**l Reply this thread
nwachic | 4/23/2012 7:57:22 AMI am really shot of word reading this. But wherever the husband of this woman is he will never find peace in his life weather in death or in life. Reply this thread
C BOY | 4/23/2012 8:19:29 AMAM NOT HAPI ATALL,IS ONLY GOD DAT KNW D TRUTH OF DIS MATHER,ANYWAY IT HAS HAPPENED IT HAS HAPPENED LETS FIND A WAY OUT,DIS IS NOT D TIME TO LAY A BLAME ON ANYBODY,DEVIL IS A LIAR.MARRIAGE NO BE NWA NA NNE,IS A LIFE TIME ISSUE, UR HEAL IN JESUS NAME AMEN. Reply this thread
Concerned citizen. | 4/23/2012 9:20:44 AMAN EYE FOR AN EYE IS WHAT THIS MAN DESERVES. 'PERIOD'. Reply this thread
kellyannn | 4/23/2012 9:48:21 AMwicked son of ah b***h.i think while he in prison the police should burn him once every week with a iron for one year so he can feel the same pain.and all men who abuse women should feel the same pain as what they make the woman feel.and the abuse might stop. Reply this thread
onyi | 4/23/2012 10:02:21 AMIts such a strange world we r leavin in......I don't want to know if de woman was really sleeping wit her father in law its not enof reason for de man to inflict such pain on de woman wat is our society turnin into the man would ave just asked de woman to go.A man has no rite to beat a woman de most painful part of dis is de death of de small child its so unfair to just kill an innocent child Reply this thread
emoni | 4/23/2012 10:50:34 AMGod have mercy what kind of barbaric and wicked son of lucifer is this how can a sane man do this to his wife because of mere suspicion dis is wickedness of the highest order and the Vagabond should not go scot free and please NFC try and scout for information and get back to us on hw we can help this lady ASAP. Reply this thread
Ezinne | 4/23/2012 11:33:06 AMMen are the worst animal . Please NIgerian govt. Take note, if that woman happen to die that i***t should be killed. May be he has found anther i***tic lady outside . This is Hight of wickedness, God will punish you, you will die a shameful death i***t. Reply this thread
zani | 4/23/2012 12:41:22 PMplis d hospital shd place an account on wb so dat d pipu who are redy to will do. Reply this thread
LeoSmart | 4/23/2012 2:01:54 PM@ Lizzy, thunder fire u. Its like u and the man plan all this together. I think d police should interrogate u also. Or maybe u are mentally deluded. If u have married I pray u witness something like dis and if not ur boyfriend will do the same thing to u so u will know hw it feels. b***h... Reply this thread
LeoSmart | 4/23/2012 2:05:56 PM@ Lizzy, thunder fire u. Its like u and the man plan all this together. I think d police should interrogate u also. Or maybe u are mentally deluded. If u have married I pray u witness something like dis and if not ur boyfriend will do the same thing to u so u will know hw it feels. b***h... Reply this thread
GOLDEN | 4/23/2012 2:33:32 PM3rd degree burns isnt smthg to joke with, as many of us dt re xtains, lets join hands to pray dt d woman makes it n recovers. as for dt woman who supported wat dt man did, i pray ur daughter or sisters dont fall into such hands, think of wat dt woman is going thru, no matter wat, nobody should do such thgs to a woman (or man). it is animanly. Reply this thread
EJIKEMEUWA | 4/23/2012 11:03:18 PMThis can only happen in Nigeria and you will be surprise that the culprit will bribe his way out from the police. Another one happen in eleyele ibadan where a man behead a woman after having sex with her and cut her legs and hands. You will also find out that this guys will walk on the street of lagos and ibadan tomorrow. If you call yourself a man, come to united state and piont only a finger to your wife and remain in jail, Iam glad iam in America Reply this thread
lily | 4/24/2012 12:06:51 AMi dont understand why the woman is the one cleaning herself with a tissue .what abt the nurses at the hospital.why are the doctors not giving maximum care to this poor lady.where is the community in which she lived.what has happen to the world!pls each one in the world especially nigeria should help Reply this thread
chemmy | 4/24/2012 9:38:11 AMEven if the woman slept with his father in law, the worst i expected him to do is to send her packing. And i will advice that the woman should be transferred to a general hospital where they have a special department that can take care and treat her properly where the bill will nt be too high for her family members too. I pray that God will put His healing hands on her so that she will be a living testimony to God's glory. Reply this thread
time | 4/24/2012 1:21:18 PMNija women don't allow your husband kill you. Take a bow if the marriage is not walking out. As for lizzy she will recevi her own soon Reply this thread
Kofoworola | 4/24/2012 4:12:00 PMthis is so horrible and cruel.pls. what can we do,i dont want this matter to die down just like that,proper purnishment should be given to an animal who call himself a man .he should not go unpurnish,i also want to suggest that this crucial matter should be discuss in the ''House of Legislature'',Women shouldn't be abuse this way,Govt must do something,or else it might be one of your daugthers turn tomorrow.plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssGovernmenttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttdo somethinggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg oooooooooooooo Reply this thread
Sabrina | 4/25/2012 1:37:37 AMWhat happened is just terrible..Have you ever heard of the women right? The husband has no right to hurt her wife if they have issues why don't they settle it to proper communication but right now it is impossible ... For the wife just be strong and don't let anything stop you for aiming justice and i'll always put you in my prayers... This man should be punish , no human would do such a thing. Reply this thread
Melanie | 4/25/2012 2:50:28 AM@Lizzy - Yes, the man is to blame because he has committed a serious crimes which happens to include the murder of his son along with torturing his wife. Mental anguish? What trauma exactly is he going through? He has mental issues and so do you. A simple blood test will determine if the child was indeed his son and if that happens to be the case does this sadistic human get imprisoned for life? Is it acceptable in Nigeria to do these sorts of things to women? What if it was your grandmother, mother or sister would you be OK with it? Abuse is abuse no matter which way some people would like to cover it up. Stop treating women as chattel. Reply this thread
viva | 4/25/2012 3:47:32 AMthis is sick hearing this all,women is a creature to be loved not to be a acted upon with brutality. how can a man be so animal,why people act violently when conversation can solve everything. i guess a normal human will call it MAD, mental or some default of brain. life is very short why people don't avoid negativity, inhumanity, hurt,fraud, harassment,cheating and all things like that.live and let the others live, be happy and let the others live happily if everyone out there can do something good for anybody around should not hesitate doing so it will bring us all to mutual harmony and every place will be worth living. Reply this thread
viva | 4/25/2012 3:49:31 AMthis is sick hearing this all,women is a creature to be loved not to be a acted upon with brutality. how can a man be so animal,why people act violently when conversation can solve everything. i guess a normal human will call it MAD, mental or some default of brain. life is very short why people don't avoid negativity, inhumanity, hurt,fraud, harassment,cheating and all things like that.live and let the others live, be happy and let the others live happily if everyone out there can do something good for anybody around should not hesitate doing so it will bring us all to mutual harmony and every place will be worth living. Reply this thread
Yumist | 4/25/2012 8:12:12 AMAs Lizzy said d mental status of d man shud be ascertained, cos d women must ve put him in a delusional state wit d claimed affair wit his father...i feel for ha sha Reply this thread
zedd toey | 4/25/2012 11:33:51 AMI don't kno wat 2 say bt jst kill d bist, a grusome death fina. Reply this thread
Ahmad | 4/25/2012 4:00:14 PMLizzy! U r a foooool. May God Punish u for wht u said. Reply this thread
Love | 4/26/2012 3:32:13 AM@ lizzy.how dear u speak like a devil.u must be a very wicked person.Even if the man suspected that his wife is sleeping with his father and so.u dont act on assumptions.they are better ways to go about issues and what if his assumptions are totally wrong.Dont ever call urself a feminist bcos u do not understand the word.Women!women!when are we going to stop been our own worst enemies. Reply this thread
Zena | 4/26/2012 6:49:33 AMI cant believe what I'm seeing. How can someone be so cruel? What did the little child do to him? God punish him for what he has done. I wish the woman a speedy recorevy Reply this thread
Rachel, Kenya | 4/26/2012 7:01:09 AMFirst and foremost, i thought i was dreaming, but it was real. How on earth could a human being do this to his fellow human? It is so shocking, or was he possessed by an evil spirit? oh ,my! only he can tell the world. For Mercy, its unfortunate she fell into the hands of an evil man, who according to me, she did not know him at all for even after staying with him for all those years.Instead she was living with a beast. But anyway, this matter is so big to us, but! not big to the law. As i speak from my country Kenya, the Law should act Justice for Mercy, she didn't deserve such cruelty from the so called husband.The law should punish this man for such a beastly act, and for it to be a lesson to others and for them not to treat their wives just like nothing. Mercy i wholly through God's grace wish you a quick recovery.For this so called" Lizzy", she should stop reasoning like she is not a woman. She should remember we are talking about a fellow woman here, that was wrong to comment...May God have mercy on her reasoning. Reply this thread
AUSTIN | 4/26/2012 5:21:57 PMWho among you is without sin let her be the first to cast a stone at her. This is exactly the question Jesus asked the furious mobs that wanted to stone a woman to that because of adultery. No matter what would have been the crime of this lady, she doesn't in anyway deserve this kind of treatment that is meted on her. If God decides to punish all of us instantly because of our heinous sins, I beleive the entire universe will be wiped away just in a twinkle of an eye. But my blame will go to the woman, how could you continue to stay with a who doesn't want you alive under one roof. It's better to be addressed as Miss Mary than Late Mrs Mary, divorce would have been the best option. I really pity her, may God grant her divine healing, victims of third degree burn hardly stay alive to tell their ugly story. I'm wishing you a quick recovery my sister. Reply this thread
happy.w. | 4/30/2012 3:53:44 PMpls women,wen a relationship or marriage is putting ur life at risk,do not think twice b4 u opt out of it. life has no duplicate.i pray that God will help her and heal her wounds Reply this thread
Linda | 5/2/2012 11:29:01 AMThis same people talking about divorce are still d same people that will tell u that a woman without a husband is useless. U will lose ur respect in ur family and outside ur famile. Except if u are strong enough. Talking from experience. Some men decided to be headband instead of husband. There is still time for d once receiveing d same beathing. Always remember d woman in our daily prayer and also book mass on her behalf Reply this thread
Dani | 5/4/2012 6:32:56 AMSuch crimes need no court of law. The police should just use a hot pressing iron on him like he did with his wife,chikena! Reply this thread
N Y | 5/10/2012 12:20:11 AMHow can a human being inflicted such a wicked act on his wife and child honestly is a devil genius. And as for you Lizzy you are sick you need a psychiatric attention. Reply this thread
Monica | 5/16/2012 9:55:43 AMMay God the giver of life and healer heal this poor woman so that at the end she will glorify His name. Amen and Amen!!!!! Reply this thread
favour kanu | 5/21/2012 5:37:03 AMDis man must a useless man Fø????? doing dis to his wife mother of ur children Reply this thread
Naps atisu | 5/21/2012 10:51:18 AMMy hand was shivering as i read this horrifying story. How cld man do this to his wife? Reply this thread
Ngozi | 5/22/2012 11:47:37 AMItz nt fair, dis is wickedness. May god help d woman . No mata hw it is d man is nt supose 2 beat his wife like dat. I pray god will 4give d man 4 dis evalastin stigma. Reply this thread
Christopher | 5/25/2012 1:19:20 AMThis is a devilish act. Why do women like to find solution always instead of avoiding or preventing it. Let's learn how to call a spade, a spade. Relationship is not by force. The greatest problem a man has is women. This woman, I feel she is more mentally okay than the s****d man. She had all the chances to prevent or avoid those occurrences but she stayed put and remained with an insane lunatic. Public, EXTEND HELPING HAND AS MUCH AS YOU CAN PLEASE...... Lord have mercy. Reply this thread
XTYNA | 5/26/2012 12:20:50 AMThe man is simply wicked. But look at dis story in a diffrent dimenssion all these yrs did d husby glue her to his body dat she can't run for her life? D neighbour didn't go to rescure. Her cuz they expected her to leave d house long ago before d man kills her. dis kind of marriage is not built on christ. Some ladies re desperate dat they use charm to manipulate a man into marriage once is expires d lady becomes like a monster to d man. Calabar pple re very gud at dat. I knw a home where is happening now just dat d man is a believer. Our tongue as women is another acid it can talk a man into doing wat he will regret for ever. It has happen as we pray for her quick recovery let it be a lesson to all of us reading. To briddle our tongue.control our temper. If our marriage is not built on christ d solid rock we should repent and hand over our marriage to God for love protectn n peace Reply this thread
deeby | 6/1/2012 3:42:27 AMi lyk d way u xpresd ua feelings about d woman dat was assaulted...z a very pathetic incident doe n i pray she survives..if u get dz..dn add me up on fb...uchendu deeby Reply this thread
Aziz | 6/9/2012 11:43:44 AMSuperior thinking deomstnrtaed above. Thanks! Reply this thread
Calista | 7/6/2012 7:37:50 AMHw will God judge dis wicked action of his s****d and f**l man,he desire to be hang and torture forever until he eye see death,my prayers go to God for quick recovery of dis woman" what a trauma!,gals beware of d kind of man u get marry to he cannot change after rather he become worst pls for d prevention of dis event caution. Reply this thread
Calista | 7/6/2012 7:38:19 AMHw will God judge dis wicked action of his s****d and f**l man,he desire to be hang and torture forever until he eye see death,my prayers go to God for quick recovery of dis woman" what a trauma!,gals beware of d kind of man u get marry to he cannot change after rather he become worst pls for d prevention of dis event caution. Reply this thread
Calista | 7/6/2012 8:30:09 AMHw will God judge dis wicked action of his s****d and f**l man,he desire to be hang and torture forever until he eye see death,my prayers go to God for quick recovery of dis woman" what a trauma!,gals beware of d kind of man u get marry to he cannot change after rather he become worst pls for d prevention of dis event caution. Reply this thread
Calista | 7/6/2012 8:31:20 AMHw will God judge dis wicked action of his s****d and f**l man,he desire to be hang and torture forever until he eye see death,my prayers go to God for quick recovery of dis woman" what a trauma!,gals beware of d kind of man u get marry to he cannot change after rather he become worst pls for d prevention of dis event caution. Reply this thread
Calista | 7/6/2012 8:46:32 AMHw will God judge dis wicked action of his s****d and f**l man,he desire to be hang and torture forever until he eye see death,my prayers go to God for quick recovery of dis woman" what a trauma!,gals beware of d kind of man u get marry to he cannot change after rather he become worst pls for d prevention of dis event caution. Reply this thread
Papi | 7/11/2012 7:13:56 AMThat man must be mentally unstable to have meted such savage act on his wife n son . Seeing the wounds he inflicted and still persisted in the act despite of her plea is sheer brute wickedness from the man. Reply this thread
Nikki | 7/15/2012 4:20:21 PMThis is a very cruel act and I feel so sorry for the woman Reply this thread
tina terner | 8/8/2012 8:02:08 AMi like nigerian people but they have bad tradation b/c of this always they heart their women please wakeup and respect ur women Reply this thread
Juno Gono | 9/11/2012 7:51:26 AMThis man must be kill due to what he did to his wife and his son. Reply this thread
Lizzy 2 | 9/23/2012 6:40:27 PMI can see only the man has been blamed here. If you read the story you all can see it is one sided. A man using iron on is wife is unjustified, so am not condoning it. but have you all thought about the mental trauma the man is going through. if you skin is burn or for you to go mentally derange which will you choose. the trauma of the man thinking their son might be for his father. Am a woman and i am very feminist. but think about all this things vitally. how many of us can survive mental derangement if your mother/father was sleeping with your husband/wife. Reply this thread
John | 9/23/2012 6:41:25 PMShe cheated on him so she deserves it. Cheating is the worst thing in the world, worse than burning, so it's all justified. Reply this thread
Eunice | 4/26/2013 5:38:25 AM |
If such thing happen to your sister how will you take it? Even if she is a flet she does not deserve it. God will make such thing happen to your sister.
JOHNSMITH | 10/22/2012 5:27:59 AMit has already happen just give everthing in hand of God ,to prayer for the woman to be a live that is all should be cass if any help i can help to sure that woman is alive that this my number +22544408668 Mr John Smith..........? Reply this thread
Dorcas | 11/23/2012 7:35:25 AMD law shud make sure he pays in a hard way Reply this thread
Eunice | 4/26/2013 5:43:17 AMJohn said she deserves it, does the baby deserve to die? is the baby also a flet? John you mean if your wife is a flet you will burn her with iron also? you will reap whatever you sow. Reply this thread
Eunice | 4/26/2013 6:21:16 AMJohn said she deserves it, does the baby deserve to die? is the baby also a flet? John you mean if your wife is a flet you will burn her with iron also? you will reap whatever you sow. Reply this thread
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